the thing is, im also very shy and i cant bring myself to talk to her. i kno i must not be the only person with this problem. im really known for "not talking." i get appraoched by girls so that's usually how i get around. shes the same way but with guys but shes a little more talkative than i am. but since i cant think of anything to say, its an akward feeling between us. i need to fix this shes my date for homecoming lol, but she said i seem too serious, and i get mad easily cuz i got pissed she was carrying a lighter, but she doesnt smoke, she just thinks their cute idk lol. so my question is, how do i get past being shy, and how what should i do to change my her image of me. cuz im actually really patient and funny, although i can be serious but i think i am about the right things. how do i show her that other side of me everyone else gets to see and get past this akward stage?
2006-10-02 20:22:31 · 6 answers · asked by kkong25 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LoL, its as if u talking about me. Look, she ain't gonna start talking to u. u need to get a reaction out of her, funny enough u'll achieve this by arguing with her. argue the fact that u not as serious as she thinks u are.
2006-10-02 20:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off start by not being pissed over stupid things like her carrying a lighter. If it makes her feel fun and happy then it should make you feel this way also. You don't want to fall in to the trap of controlling someone behavior.
Second, if you like her, you two must have something in common. Talk about those things. Ask her questions about things she and you both enjoy. Make her feel like her opinion counts. She will open up to you which in turn will allow you to open up to her.
2006-10-02 20:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from me, I've been shy my whole life and it's never gotten me anywhere, except maybe that whole mysterious label. If you really like this girl and she likes you, then go for it, who cares what happens. Just be yourself. Your heart will shine through and she'll realize how patient and funny you really are. Being serious isn't a bad thing either, as long as it's not about stupid things. Sure, talking is going to be hard, but if you just put it out there and try, she'll really go for it. Trust me, I know. Girls don't like to make the first move, mostly, we leave it up to the guys. You don't have to try to change your image with her, just be yourself, and she'll change it herself.
2006-10-02 20:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok first off..tell her your a shy boy..make her realise this, but instead of saying things, write her letters, poems, give her flowers, she will soon know how much you like her, and girls like that, and also. smell her hands, hands never lie with smokers, if you guys kiss, you can taste it, there is no reason other then needing a lighter for smoking or burning things, so my guess is she had lied and does really smoke..or she likes burning things, unless she prentends to people that she smokes to be cool, which is just very lame..so ask her..i hope i helped you out..cheers mate
2006-10-02 20:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she thinks of you is none of your business, it's what she thinks of you that matters, have confidence, and don't doubt your self women can smell fear, just be yourself no matter what
2006-10-02 20:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by creativebeloved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
open up a little and relax
2006-10-02 20:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋