Is it fair and justifiable to have sex before marraige?

Question

Do u think it is fare to have sex before marraige? does it have a posetive or negetive inpact on relation?

Answer 1

i think it depends on the person. It depends on the person's beliefs and personality if it will have a neg. or pos. effect on the relationship.

Answer 2

I think its justifiable if you will be with her for your whole life after that. But is is not justifiable if you will leave her later, or its a quasi-serious relationship or not a serious relationship at all.

This is because it will feel really good to have sex with her, but later on, when you meet someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, that passion, that spark and that love in your relationship will not be as strong as it could have been (because your potential for love has been drained a bit, even though it was a one night stand). So, have sex with the person you will be with forever, because that is what will make you content (which is what all people want), rather than happy or sad.

Answer 3

It's totally fair to the people having sex if they want to do that and dont worry about what other people think. Religious or cultural beliefs have a positive or negative impact on premarital sex. Whether the relationship works out or not is up to the individuals' commitment to the marriage.

Answer 4

I think its all about personal choice. Sexual compatability is very important in intimate relationships, and it's good to know your partner in a sexual sense just as it is on all other levels. Saving yourself for marriage, if done for the right reasons, is great if that's what you want to do - but you also need to find a partner who will respect your decision, which can be difficult. Sex is as important as socialisation in regards to human needs, so don't deny yourself it simply because it is dictated by religion or someone else. It's a personal a private act, so should also be personal and private in the decision.

Answer 5

I think if you have to ask a question like this you are not old enough to have sex or marriage. There's nothing wrong with waiting if that's what you choice and according to you own belief if you make a mature and well thought decision and prepare yourself against unwanted pregnancy and stds then that's your choice to. But I think you need to wait awhile.

Answer 6

sexual compatability is a huge part of any relationship!! you need to find that out before you make the absolute commitment of marriage. the only way is to do it,if you both respect each other and feel a special bond after, then get married and try to keep that spark alive

Answer 7

For you I'd make the world turn,
For you my heart will always yearn.
For you I'd give my life at will,
For, you are the one who makes my heart stand still.

Without you, my life is dull,
Your smile warms my deepest soul.
Your laugh is like a thousand bells,
And when you laugh... my heart doth swell.

For every wave that finds the shore,
My heart loves you a thousand times more.
For every bird that sings it's song,
My love for you grows deep and strong.

Always and forever, I'll love you till I die,
And to you, my darling, I cannot lie.
For you, my heart, I'll always endeavor
To love you now, always... and forever.

Answer 8

Fair as fair can be. We are in the year 2006; who waits until marriage anymore? Besides, who would it be unfair to??? If others want to wait until after marriage to have sex, that's their choice. More power to those who wait and as they say: To each his own.

Answer 9

hellz to the yea!!! =] if you hearts that person mucho then let him or her tap that *** or vise versa...lol..if you think u gonna b wit him fo a long time then yea why the hellz not then if your not then **** it keep ur **** in your pants then not worth doing it and then breaking up yo!!

Answer 10

I wouldn't buy a pair of shoes without trying them on!