y is it seem imposible for me to fall in love?

Answer 1

you're guarded. Falling in love is risky, but I promise sometimes it is worth the risk.

Answer 2

The way we have grown up have limited our minds to such a narrow path that we can't think of everyone as a potential true love waiting to be dived into.

There are probably hundreds of people who walk past you everyday and you look at them from afar or a few seconds, but can those few seconds turn into a lifetime? They sure can, but we can never give that person our time or love because of society and its rigid conventions.

So open your mind from "the right guy" stereotype, that he has to be tall, handsome, funny, strong etc. and see everyone for what they are, because no matter how someone looks outside, we have never given a chance to the inner self of hundreds of people who we meet everyday, and somewhere in those, our true love was waiting to manifest, but we went too fast and too straight.

Answer 3

Love have to come freely and un-conditional so as it had been said. That should be the basics for a lasting one. For the mind works “wonders” and it “wanders” too or the heart in this matter. Of course effort have to be put o it for improvements and enhancements. Oh yes, its fated or destined, so it had also been said too.

Don’t rush and stress oneself in worrying about the lack of it, it’ll come naturally and before one knows it, the cupid’s arrows are all the place.

Ever wonder why there’re no potential partners, mingle around and get to know others. Don’t wait for them…go find them! Don’t be too picky and too fast to “condemn” than learn from all aspects of a relationship. After all, its only friendship that’s involved, getting to know each another and not committing for life.

If often falling out of love, do some soul searching and ask friends for help in re-accessing ourselves if its our “fault”. Besides personality and character, outlook wise as are that of personal grooming also plays a part too.

While waiting for the cupid arrow to strike, get busy in improving ourselves, character and personality wise as these may have the chances of improving / exposing yourself to the eyes of potential admirers. Remember popularity besides good looks don’t only counts. Personality / character also do attract other than looks itself. If one is doing good, one’ll feel good too. There’s no other way than some carefree / almost free ways of attracting guys?

Most importantly, rid and avoid those low esteem feelings but at the same time its good to take note of them. Remember, feeling down and unhappy do show and shape up one’s facial expression, looks, character and personality too. Remember first impression counts! Also that relationship wise, there’s no way of forcing it, other than into a false and failed relationships? Even if that’s so, learn from them and be the wiser and improve the next one.

Know that time is running out for gals, there’s no way but to wait and improve the chances by self grooming. Other than worrying and moulding into a negative personality / character of that all too normal and inviting remarks of being frustrating an old ****.

Its better to go into a lasting relationship than taking chances? Or into a calculated risk.

Good luck.

Answer 4

If you are hurting because you cant fall in love, just imagine what it feels like to fall in love and then lose that person. Feels ten times worse. Have your fun and when the right person comes along, you will know.

Answer 5

I used to face that problem too. The problem wasn't with me, it was just an incompatibility issue. You see, I went out with studious gentlemen and they found me too 'loud and wild' for their liking. Even my gal friends told me that I'm too 'vibrant' for goody-two-shoes.

Then a close friend told me I've gotta stop dating 'boring people' and finally start seeking a like-minded guy. And I did just that. The guy that I'm currently with connects so well with me and I'm loving every moment of the times we spend together. I don't need to complete a sentence and he knows what I'm thinking. We laugh our heads off when we share jokes. I used to tell the same jokes to my dates and I draw tumble weed moments of reaction and embarrassing silence.

Take your time to search for the right person. But before you do so, find yourself. What are you like as a person? Ask yourself honestly what kind of guys are you compatible with.

Answer 6

impossible to fall in love???

maybe u haven't met ur Mr Right,when he comes, all the impossible will become possible

open up ur heart n wait for the Mr Right to come by

all the best!!!

Answer 7

Honey, its not its impossible for you, you just haven't met "him" yet. I used to think the same till I did, only he came with some heavy emotional baggage .

Lighten up sweety, it will happen when you least expect it, just go out and have fun!

Answer 8

For you I'd make the world turn,
For you my heart will always yearn.
For you I'd give my life at will,
For, you are the one who makes my heart stand still.

Without you, my life is dull,
Your smile warms my deepest soul.
Your laugh is like a thousand bells,
And when you laugh... my heart doth swell.

For every wave that finds the shore,
My heart loves you a thousand times more.
For every bird that sings it's song,
My love for you grows deep and strong.

Always and forever, I'll love you till I die,
And to you, my darling, I cannot lie.
For you, my heart, I'll always endeavor
To love you now, always... and forever.

Answer 9

Don't try so hard. I've found that if you're not looking for it, it'll come naturally. Yes, it may take time, but if you look for it you'll settle to quickly and it may not be real.

Answer 10

have fun love will come .. once you stop looking it will fall right in your hands