i keep going back to my bf. he keeps putting me through all this emotional drama and basically makes me feel like ****. i know what i need to do, yet it's so hard for me to let him go. this is really bugging me and i wonder if there's anything wrong with me. what do you think?
2006-10-02 20:04:43 · 16 answers · asked by Bena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fruit_Sna enough with the same old poem. Please g/f give it up for the night. Just pack it away.
2006-10-02 20:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by LadyRedWild 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is starting to get to your conscience and that is a good sign. You are starting to see how bad he treats you and you are not ok with it. First, you need to really look inside you and ask what is it you are looking for? If it's love, respect, security, status etc... then he is not giving them to you. You are looking in the wrong place. Take some time out and pamper yourself eg. massage, manicure or something, and remember you are a beautiful person and you deserve to be treated with love and respect. Those who treat you any less do not deserve your friendship, time, let alone your love. Change your cell number, make new friends and start hanging out with people who will truly appreciate you. Respecting yourself is the first step to loving you real self. Then people will follow suit... Hope I helped!!!
2006-10-03 03:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All women think if I give him one more chance he'll change. He really loves me. But sometimes it just isn't so. You just haven't come to your breaking point yet. You'll know when your there, when no matter what he says or does the future might look lonely without him but you feel relief that he wont be in it. You'll get older and realize your worth more then what he's offering you. Good luck and remember he can only do what you let him do to you. Are you that bad that you deserve his abuse. Think about it if it was your sisters or cousin or best friends boyfriend treating them the way he treats you what would you think of him.
2006-10-03 03:13:24 · answer #3 · answered by yogi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course there is something wrong with you. You have low self esteem, fear of things that are new, you prefer the familiar even though it is abusive, and you probably had a father who behaves just like your BF. You also like the thrill of emotional drama... it is your answer to boredom. You need courage to face the unfamiliar. The unfamiliar is.... someone who is kind and treats you with respect.
2006-10-03 03:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mercurio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your comfortable with him in spite of the crap. It's easier than building a new relationship with some one else.
A woman who is abused seems to always keep going back! Why? No one knows! But when you have had enough, you will move on and wish you had done it sooner.
2006-10-03 03:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you know this relationship's toxic, it's familiar. It sucks, but you know what to expect. Make the break and get on with your life. Try new things that you've always wanted to do but he would hate. In a few months you'll be kicking yourself for waiting so long.
2006-10-03 03:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by Chocoholic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need counseling. It sounds like you have some self esteem issues. You'll find the answer when you look inside yourself. Get help, no one should be able to make you feel like poop.
Hey fruit snacks, I reported you and your poem stinks.
2006-10-03 03:14:22 · answer #7 · answered by buddhafuldreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok look ive been in this sitution dont go back to him your just puttin yourself through more and more pain by the second let him know your not for his **** and that you dont care even if you do i care about my ex alot but when i walk past him i laugh and act like i dont care but honestly when i get home i cry constantly just show him your ok and make new memories and forget your old
2006-10-03 03:31:57 · answer #8 · answered by *t. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go. he doesnt deserve someone like you. take it from me, iexperienced that also. its not good. dont waste your time with a person like this which he thinks that the most important thing is himself. and what you are doing now is the loss of sef respect. respect and love yourself first before you can get it from others. i experienced that girl, i allow this man to treat me like that and its one of my regrets. so leave him before its late and prove to him that you can live without him. its not your loss girl! you can find a better person than him...
2006-10-03 03:24:54 · answer #9 · answered by moirah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r so much an emotional girl .. and that is the hard part and it looks like its your 1st try with a guy ..
you have to look for your self ..and try to find another man to forget your ex
2006-10-03 03:10:36 · answer #10 · answered by mazen71j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry trina but the only person that can help you is yourself.. maybe better try and talk to a counselor maybe he/she can help you understand things more... the fact that u are recognizing that you have a problem is already a good start for you..
2006-10-03 03:09:18 · answer #11 · answered by sen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋