Help I had a weird dream?

Question

Okay I went back in time when i lived at home but i was still the age i am now and i had my children (weird) anyway my family parents and my children were being kept hostage. I went mad and dragged my children out of the window but unfortunately i couldnt get to my parents. So I called the police and my potential new lover was the head army guy!!!!!! anyway they were useless so i knicked a gun and went in i saved my parents. Why did i dream this and why wasnt my husband in my dream why was my potential lover in it

Answer 1

Your husband isn't in the dream because you aren't thinking of him anymore, he isn't important to you.

The hostage situation is due to your new lover who would jeopardise/alter the life you have now.

You save your family because they mean a lot to you.

You can't save your parents initially because they are reluctant to accept your marital situation.

Bear in mind though that dreams are only distorted reflections of your life at the moment. You can't use them to guide your life, they only reflect what you are worried about.

Answer 2

Okay I went back in time when i lived at home but i was still the age i am now and i had my children (weird) anyway my family parents and my children were being kept hostage. I went mad and dragged my children out of the window but unfortunately i couldn't get to my parents. So I called the police and my potential new lover was the head army guy!!!!!! anyway they were useless so i knocked a gun and went in i saved my parents. Why did i dream this and why wasn't my husband in my dream why was my potential lover in it

Answer 3

Your husband was in his potential lover's dream saving her kids. Seriously..dreams are just garbled consiousness ..your brain is running in hibernation mode so do not read too much into it. All it shows is that you have strong emotional bonds with your childhood, parents, children and you've been thinking about a potential lover ( perhaps more than your husband ).

Dreaming about your childhood home is very common...that's where your personality was formed. Natural that you should revisit it.

Dreaming about your kids is reflective of a mother's natural protective instinct.

Dreaming about a hot guy in uniform is...fun ? That part of your dream is probably reflective of the fact that you know or fear your potential lover is for fun and cannot replace your husband in the role of protector for your children.

Answer 4

It seems that in the dream, the potential new lover was expected to save you from something, and parallels could be drawn alongside how you feel, that this new lover might save you from, say, boredom, or make you feel briefly better about yourself. It appears, however, that deep down you realise that the new lover will not in any way be of use and that things like family are more important.

Answer 5

so let me get this straight, u are married, and have a potential lover? If that's the case u are contemplating whether to cheat on your husband with this guy. Like in your dream the (maybe) lover is the opposition that doesn't help u, so maybe u are wanting your husband to save the day

Answer 6

Lots of things can inspire dreams like this.

You may be concerned about your parents. You may have a secret (even to you) roving eye and fantasies of infidelity, even though you would never consider it.

I wouldn't worry too much about this. I have had some pretty strange dreams in my lifetime. Dreams like this tend to be disturbing because they are somewhat real in their nature and they have story lines that are troubling. You are bothered because you are wondering if you would ever actually respond this way.

Hostage stories in the news could have added to the vividness of this dream, and you might think about whether you may have eaten something that night that caused you to be more active mentally than usual.

My favorite recurring dream is the one where I am in my last semester in college, taking two classes that I have to have to graduate, but that are scheduled at the same time so I have to cut one to attend the other. I'm halfway through the semester and failing both.

I've had this dream four or five times and it is still bothersome, even though I graduated from college 40 years ago this year.

Weird? Welcome to the club.

Answer 7

You feel as though you are the only one caring for your family. Your husband wasn't in it because you don't rely on him anymore. Your potential lover came in as a hero in your mind however the fact that he was useless meant that you don't really know if he is worth having.

Answer 8

I wish I had dreams as actioned packed as that! It'd save me watching so much TV!

Seriously, I once read this stuff about analysing yer dreams through word association - you could think of a word that defines the main theme of your dream and then the next word from that that pops into your head could lead to what's on yer mind

Answer 9

Um particular final night I had the strangest desires approximately people who i bypass to college with. I in spite of the indisputable fact that it grow to be unusual because of the fact I graduated college this twelve months. And the different night I had a dream that all of the travelers that confirmed as much as my grad. party had those faces like the youngsters do interior the pink Floyd video for yet another Brick interior the Wall

Answer 10

i DO not WANT TO sound like a therapist but my family has a gift so take it for what it is worth, You and your family are held hostage, something in your past I am guessing you need to deal with your past before you can be capable of dealing with your present, whatever is done is done move on close the book the only thing that is important is now!!!