i keep going back to my bf. he keeps putting me through all this emotional drama and basically makes me feel like ****. i know what i need to do, yet it's so hard for me to let him go. this is really bugging me and i wonder if there's anything wrong with me. what do you think?
2006-10-02 19:43:12 · 13 answers · asked by Bena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That you think he is all that you deserve. I think you are comfortable in your relationship and afraid of change. I think that you should seperate yourself for the last time from your boyfriend, give yourself time to love you, and then once you are comfortable in your own skin and know that you are really deserving of love, decency, and respect invite someone else into your life.
Good Luck and Best Wishes!!
2006-10-02 19:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships can make things unclear, especially when they become emotional rather than rational. There is nothing wrong with you, just dealing the cards you are being dealt. I think you know you need to leave him but you care for him and don't want to admit the thought of an unsuccessful relationship. It won't be easy but better now than a month or year from now. If he knows he can get you back on the drop of a hat he will take advantage any time he chooses. Take control of your own life and see where that leads. Good Luck!
2006-10-03 02:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by sfs_onfridays 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is probably nothing wrong with you, though the emotional drama can make you feel as if there is.
It's hard for you to let go because all the BS he has been feeding you is getting to your head. You need to take a LONG break from him. After-wards when you consider going back to him, if you have ANY doubts about it, don't.
There are so many wonderful people out there, it is an injustice to yourself to be limited to someone whom obviously is not a very good match.
2006-10-03 02:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course there is something wrong with you. There are a million decent guys in the world and you keep going back to one that makes you feel like ****? Think about it
2006-10-03 02:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by been there 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ther is nothing wrong with you. We do stupid things for love. What you need to do is get some self esteem back. He is making you feel like ****. why do you think you deserve that? A man is supposed to make you feel like you are the best thing in the world. Once you love yourself more you'll dump him like a bad habit
2006-10-03 02:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by Stephani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly ,there is nothing wrong with you.Secondly you need a break.Just go out for holidays with your Friends or family.Or try to be busy in some work ,or develop some hobby.
2006-10-03 02:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by truthfinder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there! You have to muster the courage within yourself to move on, and stay gone. Theres nothing wrong with you, youre just caught "in the cycle". It happens to the best of us.
2006-10-03 02:48:05 · answer #7 · answered by RocketGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you haven't suffered enough. When you do, you will be ready. Until then you will keep going back. I just hope you get sick of it before permanent damage is done.
2006-10-03 02:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by everdazed2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with you...just love! Think about it, why do women stay with men that beat tha hell out of em? Theyre in love! Theyre not happy and theyre not enjoying it, but they love em, so they stay around
2006-10-03 02:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by weezy627 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you must be sprung off the d*** or the tongue. It gots to be one or both because how must abuse can a person take? Unless u have a very low self image of yourself.
2006-10-03 02:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by inneedofhelp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋