i am 23 comleting my MBA in JAN 2007. we are very intimately involved i love him a lot but he says that has a jint family and has to think a lot before taking such a decision but then y dint he tell me all these things at the begening of our relation ia m really worried and dont know wat to do????
2006-10-02 19:05:38 · 10 answers · asked by Sandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He got what he wanted why would ANY guy want to get married after that...
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2006-10-02 19:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by stupidreplier1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He didn't tell you because you didn't ask and also because he didn't want a commitment or marriage. I am going through the same situation honey. I prayed and talked to people and finally I came to the conclusion that he didn't have to be with me because I no longer want to be with him, so I let go. It was hard as hell but once I realized love true love isn't suppose to be that way, I was able to walk away with faith that the man I'm suppose to be with will ask me to marry him before I'm ready, and I won't have to say a word to anyone about him not doing things right because he'll be Mr.Right. You need a good support system and try to start picturing yourself without him in your life so you can start acting out. (Now if you want him anyway you have to let him go, if he loves you he'll come for you and dedicate his self to you out of love, if he doesn't he was just using you, believe it or not. So think about it, I know that's it's hard but just try because you don't want to force someone to be with you and it doesn't work and later on you end up hurt worst that the imaginable!!(good luck).
2006-10-02 19:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by Mycan Moneek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be worried. Just dump him. You are entering into a new phase of your life. With an MBA you are going places and will meet a lot of people. Take advantage of those experiences and be happy not to be tied down, especially to someone who is reluctant to marry you.
2006-10-02 19:10:45 · answer #3 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him figure that out. Maybe he is 'the one' maybe he is not. If he isn't sure let him have some space. He obviously loves you very much and it was probably hard for him to tell you that. Be happy he loves you enough to be honest with you. It isn';t anything to be worried about. If you start to smother him then things could get worse so just be happy and be with him and treat him well. Enjoy your time together.
2006-10-02 19:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by BlondeBarbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
generally, and this is a really broad geneeralization, guys usually dont expect marraige from the start of a relationship, and his reason for not proposing seems more like an excuse. look on the bright side, ur young and from what i know, intelligent. if he's really the guy u want, let him know that and keep the relationship AS IS. he'll come around.
2006-10-02 19:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by mechmunkee3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Rimi! You cannot make a person change his decision nor force someone to be with you. You just have to admit that he is no more interested in that relationship and move on. If someone love you he will fight for you.
2006-10-02 19:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by Saphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you severe? the possibilities are high in all probability narrow, yet which skill there continues to be a gamble. now there's a one hundred% risk that your boyfriend is a dumbass. bypass get this regarded at... i assume you could desire to watch for your next ovulation cycle or something. god, he's an fool. frugal. yet an fool. suitable needs
2016-12-12 19:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i prob screwed my girlfriend like 1 million times in the past 4 years and i broke up wit her a month ago so dont think your special
2006-10-02 19:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by standanddeliver87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure that you're the only woman in his life? if yes, then he should not say things like that to you...if he's serious, he should discuss or even mention some of his plans in life having you as part of it....you're not getting any younger..you're an educated woman and you can find someone else that will have you as their priority
2006-10-02 19:11:02 · answer #9 · answered by harukashin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My apologies, did you write this drunk, because it sure seems like it. If you love eachother that is all what really matters. Just remember..... Do you think you will last? cause if you dont think so save the trouble trust me it is much more painful departing after marrage than if you say no thanks.. Just be sure.
2006-10-02 19:09:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋