i have been dating this one girl for about 2 weeks now and i like her (she's a keeper) and last night we went out clubbing together we had a good time and all of a sudden out of nowhere me and her bump into one of my ex girlfriends from like 6 months ago or something like that. she sees me and she sees the girl i'm with and tells her that we dated and tells the girl " don't trust him, he will either cheat on you, or drop you for the next hot girl, he will break your heart and you are just waisting your time" WTF was that? why would she do that that *********., and now the girl im dating is doubting everything and is thinking twice about everything she is like "is it true, do you want me just because im hot?" and i told her no, but my ex totally screwed me. what do i do, what do i tell my current girlfriend? i really like her and i don't want her to break up with me because of that stupid ex.
2006-10-02 18:53:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her that you didn't want to bring up the subject because you respect a girl's privacy & all, but that ex has been trying to hook back up with you for some time. Tell her that she's even went so far as trying to hook up with your friends to make you jealous!Reassure your new girl that she is hotter, funnier, smarter, sexier, etc. & she has nothing to worry about!
2006-10-02 19:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by tigerlily27 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hate to say it, but this is why you try to leave on good-ish terms with your ex - because we girls know that sometimes ex girlfriends really do know what's going on, and a bad note from an ex girlfriend can be a major red flag. Not that I am saying you did cheat / whatever else your ex said you did - she might just be a particularly jealous or nasty person. But either watch out what kind of girl you date from now one - preferably not one who is so nasty as to do something like that from out of the blue, or watch out how you seperate from them.
As for your current girlfriend, I wouldn't tell her anything other than what you have already said if I were you. The more you say, the deeper the hole you dig yourself. You look like you are defending yourself- why would you, unless what the ex said was true? Let your actions do the talking - be sweet and kind, pay extra attention to her for a while, or make sure to show her somehow that you are into her - not just her body. Remember some little thing she throws off during a conversation and do it for her - like she says "Winne the pooh was my favorite kid's book" - go get her the book. It shows you are listening to her, and don't just want her because she is hot. Let other people tell her about the ex girlfriend's mean nutso streak - don't you tell her, or she will think you badmouth your ex girlfriends (and she is aware she could become one in the future).
But please don't play with girl's emotions - don't do these things unless you really like her, and if you were kind of a jerk to the ex, own up to it - she will find out from someone, sooner or later. Good luck!
2006-10-02 19:05:44 · answer #2 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all some girls when they see your happy with another girl they get jealous. They think well if he isn't with me then I don't want him with her.
Second if you really like this girl your with tell her the reason why you broke up with that girl.The reason probably is the fact that she aint got no respect for herself or anybody .Tell your girl shes just trippin and you'd never break up with her. Tell her shes alot more mature than the other girl and that just because some girl walks up and says stuff about you doesn't mean its all true. Then tell her to trust you and then you show her you care for her and respect her and don't be going out with her because of her looks.If you want a real woman in life you look deep down not whats on the surface.
2006-10-02 19:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley F.M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex was probably jealous and insercure Hating as i would like to call it because she saw you with another woman and she's probably still crying about you... I think you should tell your girlfriend now that you really do like her and let her know the situation of your last relationship and let her know what really happened and why the ex is so bitter... Tell her that there is always two sides to every story and let her know why else would your ex talk **** about you because she still wants you or can't except the fact of seeing you with someone else and let her know she can't believe everything she hears well good luck
2006-10-02 19:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by ~*Megan N MaRc~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are EX gf's b. i. t. c. h. e. s. ?Probaly because they are ex'es...Tell current just what you told us....that you really like her enjoy being with her and you dont want to break up with her. what is in the past needs to stay there it's over...it isnt the same situation.and after all the other girl is an Ex...and quite frankly it sounds like she has some Issues perhaps it would be a good thing to tell new gf why you broke up with other girl....was this incident a typical example of her behaviour?...use it as example.
Good luck!
2006-10-02 19:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just Biotches!! If your current girlfriend trusted you she would pay no attention to the other THING!! I think she would say something like that cause she is jealous that you have a hotter girl than her. LOL. Just tell your current GF that she is just jealous of your gorgeous girlfriend you have now. Just tell her you love her and wouldnt do anything to hurt her.
Hopefully that helps!
2006-10-02 19:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok look just tell your girlfriend now that your ex is a total ********* and that shes still not over you (thats what it sounds like) if you really like her and you think shes a keeper then stay with her and let her no that your not like that and if she dont believe you prove it to her and tell her how much you care about her
2006-10-02 19:04:12 · answer #7 · answered by *t. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your a young stud right???? so there's probably some truth to what your ex said...right???? sure there is dude be honest. fact is guys your age do all those things and more so don't sweat the small stuff there's lots of time for the keeper type when your older and mature enough to know the diff. dude......
2006-10-02 18:59:55 · answer #8 · answered by 4stringthndr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 11:21:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yr current gfriend can judge you on how u treat her now. Let the past stay in the past. We all have done things, but we must let the show go on. Keep it simple.
2006-10-02 18:58:28 · answer #10 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋