How do I ask a girl for her phone number? Talking to them is no problem(I love to talk) but I always get shy when it comes to asking her for her number. It like a mental block on when in a conversation should I ask and what to say?
2006-10-02 18:46:19 · 16 answers · asked by peacefulwreck 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give her your number instead. this way you don't have to ask.
2006-10-02 18:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by phe_03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good not to ask for a number because you will most likely get a fake one. Besides, what would you say in the phone call? Ask if she wants to go some place quiet or with better food or invite her to an event you will later attend.
2006-10-02 18:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by charity2882 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try something like:
"well, it was great talking with you. Perhaps we can continue this conversation at another time. Could I have your number?"
"hey, you seem like a cool person. If you want, maybe we could go out sometime. Shall we exchange numbers?"
"Do you want to continue this conversation over dinner this weekend?"
If you allude to future plans with this individual, at some point the necessity of exchanging numbers will come up. Good luck!
2006-10-02 19:18:23 · answer #3 · answered by bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try these ideas:
1) Rather than asking for her #, say things like a) "wow, you're easy/great/nice to talk to...we should continue it outside of *wherever you are*" b) "we should really go out sometime, bet we'd have a lot of fun" c) Start talking about something (bowling, restaurants, dancing, etc) and if she agrees to liking it, say "we should totally _______ sometime!"
Say these things in hopes for her to take some iniciative and say something like "that sounds fun..." and then offer her #.
2)Another choice is if you're getting along really well, pretend your cell phone rings in your pocket (because it's on vibrate) or, if you don't like fibbing, set and alarm to go off a few times during the night, (or use it if it actually rings) and when you hang up, or look at it and say "oh it's just a reminder" add on "but hey, while i have it out, would you mind if i take down your #?"
Hope thoes help. Good luck.
PS: A bunch of guys have asked me for my # and many have been obviously nervous about it...and I really don't mind because I know it's hard. (plus, if a girl does mind that you're a little nervous...do you really want to be with her?)
2006-10-02 18:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by michellinie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn it around, and be prepared it give her your number. Or get more modern and ask her for her email or im address.
Also, make sure you have something to write on and with (paper and pen).
Or, if you both have cell phones, ask for her phone so you can enter your number in her phone directory. Bet she does the same for you!
2006-10-02 18:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by pdilks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try saying something casual like,
"do you mind if i have your phone number? i enjoy talking to you and i would like to get to know you a little better if that is alright"
it is the respectful (and safe) way to go for someone who is shy about asking for a number.
2006-10-02 18:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by Curiosity killed the cat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are good with talking, just chat her up which should break the ice, then when it's time for you to go, tell her you'd like to continue the conversation. Ask if it would be ok for you to give her a call, and hopefully she'll give you her number.
Good Luck!!!
2006-10-02 18:47:30 · answer #7 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say I'd like to talk with you more often so may I have your phone number. If she says no, then you have no choice but to become a monk.
2006-10-02 18:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try it in reverse. Write your phone number on a piece of paper, and when you see her tell her, "If you would ever like a friend to talk to, please call me." This approach really impressed me and it may do the same to her, too. Best wishes.
2006-10-02 18:50:28 · answer #9 · answered by Rhonda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
" I know you're busy and I've gotta head to, so...hey let's swap numbers." and pull out a pen and business card or something. Totally smooth and she won't have time to think about it or say no!
Tell yourself people are attracted to you. Your making it hard because you are saying it's hard. Say instead, it's easy. Don't make this a self fulfilling prophecy...
2006-10-02 18:54:49 · answer #10 · answered by Ponderpink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you'll call her and than just ask her for the number
2006-10-02 18:49:25 · answer #11 · answered by Stephi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋