I am 14 and I've known this girl for two years. I think she might like me but I don't know for sure, plus she has a boyfriend who's on the football team and I'm not sure if i can be measure up to him.
2006-10-02 17:59:20 · 23 answers · asked by omgff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't ask out girls that have boyfriends....
2006-10-02 18:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm learning that high school relationships are very off and on, unless a couple is really serious about each other. You have to know whether or not she is really into him. Does she seem like she really enjoys being with him? Is he a sweet guy? Are they all over each other at school? If the answers to these questions are YES... do NOT ask her out. Just remain friends. The more time you spend together, the more you'll know about each other and whether or not you two are even compatible.
2006-10-03 01:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by gmfeike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all if the girl that you have in mind has a boyfriend you shouldn't be asking her out. Girls aren't always as shallow as you may think always having to have the "hottest guy". Ever girl measures men differently. If you have feelings for her you should talk to her, tell her that you care about her and see what she says. At 14 though, I wouldn't be to worried about it. You have your whole life ahead of you, don't worry about girls to much.
Good Luck! :)
2006-10-03 01:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by short n sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah.football team..huh?....well.talk to her(when her bf is not around..to avoid getting hurt!)and tell her u like her as more than a friend.But also tell her u understand that she is taken for the moment and if u realli like her u will wait.Ill be 14 in Nov. and kinda going through the same thing..just the other way around......my friend likes me but i have a bf.Good luck!
2006-10-03 01:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you shouldnt ask her out because she has a boyfriend and you should never ask a girl out when you no she has a boyfriend already.... if you tell her you like her you might get your heart broken and she might not want to be your friend anymore.... Right..... and by you telling her you like her and you want to go out with her she will more likely tell her boyfriend then he will want to fight you for trying to take his girl....
Good Luck;
2006-10-03 01:35:48 · answer #5 · answered by shorty_2_us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You DON'T ask a girl out who already has a boyfriend! She might like you as a friend, but she is spoken for. Find someone else, you're young! I hope this helps.
2006-10-03 01:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by organic gardener 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well keep your options open for one you still have lots of time in your life to find the perfect somebody. However, you can ask her to hang out with you and your friends. Always stay with groups because if you hang out alone with her, her boyfriend might think she is cheating on him. Or if you need help with homework you could ask her to help you with homework just as a friend. You could also offer to help her with her homework if she needs any help.
2006-10-03 01:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by Horse Lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Measure up to him how exactly? Dick size? If he's on the football team then he is probably a stallion compared to you and I doubt that your love will want to go out with you if she can sit on that come hell or high water.
2006-10-03 01:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You stand by and be a friend to her and step in if the football player breaks her heart. If you ask her out now, she'll just think you're a desperate idiot.
2006-10-03 01:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has a boyfirend, you can be a friend, but not a boyfriend. Don't worry about measuring up to anyone else. Just be yourself.
2006-10-03 01:03:27 · answer #10 · answered by vabanu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't...plain and simple. If she has a boyfriend, it
means hands off. If she and her boyfriend break up, she's
fair game, and by all means, ask her out when's she
available for dating again. Otherwise, back off, and in the
mean time, wait for her, or ask someone else out if you
like her.
2006-10-03 01:02:50 · answer #11 · answered by Answerer17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋