My love life is not good, first i liked this girl who worked at walmart really pretty became emotionally attached but found out shes a lesbian then liked this good girl but my friend took her, then i liked this girl but i think she has a boyfriend will i ever find someone for me?
2006-10-02 17:48:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
someday you'll find the right one!
2006-10-02 17:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by an14341991 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, my friend, You must find yourself. It is useless to search for an equal if you don't know what she is equal to. A Wal-mart employee is great for the average joe with low expectations. What else was she though? I hate lables but you claim she likes women. Is there a feminine bone in you? If the good girl allowed herself to be stole away by your friend then she was not a good girl. You did not have a very good friend either. The girl with the boyfriend sounds promising especially if she is a "Good girl" like your last GF. Stop playing like a dog and hold out for a bit. When you are ready. The right girl will come to you.
2006-10-03 00:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by charity2882 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you still breathing? Still walking, talking, thinking, dreaming and always on the look out for the next person you could love? If the answer to these questions is yes, than hope is what's ahead for you.
But in the meantime, here's some sage advice, and I can give it to you because it became entirely true for me.
Stop looking!
It will happen when it happens, and if you spend all your time looking, waiting for, or even, trying to guide love toward happening, not only are you focused in the wrong places, you're wasting energy you could be using toward making you the best you that you can be.
2006-10-03 00:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by Blissbug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're not meant for you, but someday you'll find someone who will love you. A friend of mine had been to a relatioship too many times, evrytime he falls in love, he always say ''this is it''...but the next day, you will just hear ''it's over.'' Then he just got tired of looking for someone until one day, he met a girl that complete his life. It was a short romance that lead to marriage. So, what am trying to say, love comes in unexpected time and unexpected place. Just when you don't expect it then, here it is... shaking your world. So don't be despair coz the girl that will come to you will be the best among them.You will not look for it, but love will be the one to knock your heart..
2006-10-03 01:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by odel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you keep that liking from afar attitude, more pain is in store for you. In life as well as love a closed mouth don't get fed. You like someone pursue them, let it be known, let them know where you stand and how you feel. A lot of times one of the most attractive things is being liked, and 2. you never have to live with regret of thinking damn if I woulda tried to talk to that girl, , , forget that go out there and make it happen. Plus that's how you learn trial and error. But you will always be in the same spot if you never make a move. or like my ball coach used to say can't score if you don't shoot,
or like the isleys bros said
life is for the living so lets live it baby, ,, , I could go on
2006-10-03 00:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by theblessedknower 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there it does get better. Try not to get attached to easily. If your friend took her then she wasnt yours to begin with. She doesnt deserve you anyways just look at it that way. Love comes to those who wait and are patient. It will come when you arent looking and it maybe right there in front of you and you just dont knwo it yet. Try to keep a positive attitude about things.
2006-10-03 00:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by tiggerluvnmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying so hard.You'll find the perfect person for you,maybe not when ur ready,but i believe every1 has a certain special someone!...and ur friend took her...1st of all if someone can take her away she must not realli love you...and 2nd why are u still saying he's ur friend???
2006-10-03 01:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it like this, God made man one day he said man need a companion and he made woman. So as the Lord said we must come to him for all our needs. So go to the Lord for your soul-mate and he will send you the perfect person for he never mess up or give us the wrong thing. But when we try to do it ourselves we mess up and we pay repercussions. Good Luck!!!!
2006-10-03 00:59:28 · answer #8 · answered by linda g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-10-03 00:51:27 · answer #9 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you become emotionally attached and not know shes a lesbian.... quit lookin so hard.....your girl may be right in front of you and you dont even know it....oh and p.s......ask her if she has a boyfriend or your friends will continue to steal your girls
2006-10-03 00:53:54 · answer #10 · answered by u4oric1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you will. How old are you? If you are really young (18 - 25), then what's the rush?
2006-10-03 00:52:33 · answer #11 · answered by K8 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋