ok ... so, theres a guy i liked since 7th grade, and i knew from the moment i met him that he was going to be "something" to me. i just couldnt figure it out ... then feelings came. In 8th grade, we went out for about 6 months. i knew i loved him!! but i was always too afraid to tell him, thinking that he may not feel the same. well, he ended up breaking up with me, and the reason is still unknown. this happened a year ago, and i just still cant get over it ... is it to late to confront him?? even if it isnt, i dont know if i'll be confident enough to do that. on top of that, i am still in love with him, and i never liked anyone more than i liked him ... what can i do? by the sweet looks he still gives me, i feel like he still likes me ... but we havent talked since that breakup, and again, i dont think i'm confident enough for it! i need serious help with this!
2006-10-02 17:40:17 · 11 answers · asked by natty <33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i also tried talking to all my friends about this, but they havent been alot of help, considering that none of them have been in a relationship that had a huge impact on their lives, like mine did.
2006-10-02 17:41:26 · update #1
ONE MORE very important detail i left out ... the night he broke up with me, my dad SCREAMED at me while he was over at my house, about not being able to have a b/f, and how he doesnt want me to have one, etc etc ... so, i'm thinking mayb he broke up with me cause he didnt want me to get in so much trouble anymore. buti dont know ........ just a thought ....
2006-10-02 18:00:02 · update #2
Try writing a note. Meet him alone in a safe place. You can lie to him if you want but you can't lie to your heart. You are not the only one afraid of shallow water. If you don't say it how will he know? You've got nothing to lose and everything to gain.
2006-10-02 17:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by charity2882 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this your first love?....usually first love is the sweetest and hurt the most.....after other several relationship you'll grow on it. If you think talking your previous relationship will help you untie the question why you broke up then find the right time to confront him but don't be too desperate...... don't expect special things or special words from him....and prepare to put yourself in the picture of why your relationship didn't work out as yoy thought it would be...... But if you willing to put the past behind you and stop wondering 'what if...' you don't need to confront him, ask him things and hear the answer you know you don't want to hear.... if you brave enough to move on, i'm sure you feel better in future relationship....i've confronted my ex before and i regret it.... i wish i'd just let it go.... and move on..... don't let this things bother you to find another love....
2006-10-03 01:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by pheobe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL YOU WHAT I WOULD DO. GO in your kitchen and fix some Halloween cookies. GO to walmart and borrow a buck buy a cookie box. put a sweet note on the box that says this. I miss you a lot hope you like the cookies happy fall season call me (put your telephone number) i think this Will help get the ball rolling again. BUT after you send the cookies do nothing remain quiet. SMILE when you see him. IT will get to him .DO not appear desperate.
2006-10-03 00:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so very young yet,Don't rush things....I think you should let it go, perhaps the timing just wasn't right...First love is often painful in the lessons it teaches you.... patience being one of them....try to move on and don't hold bitter feelings toward him...if it is meant to be you will get a second chance, perhaps when you are both older...in the meantime don't let life pass you by.
2006-10-03 01:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by celticldy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, just let it go, if a guy broke up with you it mean it s over , pls move over. the way thing is like cheating on yourself that the guy still likes you but actually he is not . pls forget him, have fun with you friend, how old r u? you have a long way to go , this may b not the guy who does not appreciate you but it doesn mean you r not goin to meet one i m sure you will met the guy who will love you and make you happy . girl you have to move on. that so called 'cute' guy dosen do any good with you . do u think he will love you as much you love him? do you think he will still love you if you want to get together with him?he will treat you wrost ~! pls think before you make any move. you will find you man may b not now, i m sure it will b soon. take care.
aaron
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2006-10-03 00:50:41 · answer #5 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its never to late to confront anyone. Time is the essence. For all we know we may not be around tommorrow. Go for it you have nothing to lose and everything to gain!
You have the right!
wish you all the best
2006-10-03 00:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.. you need to tell him how you feel if it means writin a note to him he needs to know theres no way your getting over him and you have questions that need anwsers he needs to know whats going on ask him why yall broke up tell him your not going to give up on him and that you think theres still hope between yall too
2006-10-03 00:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by *t. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if u really love him...go and talk to him and tell him how much you love him....and ur saying u have broken up...any way....i dont know the reason for breaking up..... but see one has to be down when other does a mistake....or u do that ur self...so if u really do love him...then go and say what u have on his mind and say sorry even if it wasnt ur mistake for the break up......LOVE is COMPROMISE
2006-10-03 00:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by bindu kiran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhhhhhh, young love. Hun, let him go. There are plenty more where he came from. Better even.
2006-10-03 00:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by Raven Sky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-03 00:41:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋