there are these four guys who like me I like them too.but how do i choose one?i like them all.HELP ME!!!! I dont know which one to choose.any Advice?
2006-10-02 17:27:29 · 15 answers · asked by me :^P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its ok to like them but as you say you only have to choose one. get to know this 4 guy, dont be in hurry to choose one,give time so that you will not regret it.observe their attitudes, what are their hobbies, are they honest with their intentions with you, will they have the patience and honesty in dealing with you. these are some of the things that can help you think and choose wisely for the right guy for you. he may not be perfect but he will be with you in all the ups and downs, willing to be loyal and willing to sacrifice things. dont go after their looks but what is between their head and heart.
2006-10-02 17:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by pinx_ga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them all your dilemma, and give them all an equal chance
to win you over. Go out with dates on all of them and keep notes
of your date, and slowly, but surely you can begin a process of
elimination to determine which one will be the best for you. What
is your criteria? You can rate them on one or more of the following: looks, physique, personality, charm, style, sense of humor, intelligence and other factors that you might look for to help you make your decisions. Don't make your decision solely on the basis of one factor. Look for all the different traits you look for in your ideal boyfriend, and pick the one who is the one that
is the best fit. Good luck, and please tell us how it goes. You should pick the one your gut instinct tells you is the right one.
Your gut is usually right about these types of things.
2006-10-03 00:44:00 · answer #2 · answered by Answerer17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with all of them, but before you destroy any future commited relationships let them all know that your having a hard time. That theres these other guys and so forth. Dating each of them is the only way you can make a final decision. You need to spend exclusive time.....
2006-10-03 00:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by syaqub982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAKE A list of what you like in a man. SEE if any of them fill any of those things your looking 4.
2006-10-03 00:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you go on a couple of dates with all of them (on the sly of course) and then decide who you like the most. If you still can't decide you are a very lucky girl!
2006-10-03 00:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is not clear to you then you shouldnt choose any of them at least not yet anyway. go out with each of them individually a bit more until you become almost certain that there is one that you are most compatible with and want to be with.
2006-10-03 00:31:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at how they treat you and how they act with everyone .then get a list going on what are your likes and dislikes.who ever you get the most likes that is some one you want to think about and see who really care about you for you...
2006-10-03 00:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by kmami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 guys?!
holy Moses!
here's the criteria.
who's got the most cash?
who's the best looking?
who has the biggest heart?
who has never cheated on someone?
what is your priority?
2006-10-03 00:30:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why choose one? You are young, enjoy your youth. Don't get serious about any one, just date them all. That's not a bad thing as long as each know that you are dating other people as well.
2006-10-03 00:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
My mother's advice would be this... if you don't already know none of them are truly the right guy. When you find the right person you'll know.
2006-10-03 00:36:22 · answer #10 · answered by acidicblackrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋