i met this guy yesterday on internet.we chated almost 2 hrs.after 2 hrs i leaved.
when i again surfed on internet after 4 hrs i was still there waiting for me.he said that he was searching for me in each chat room for last 4 hrs.
we r in the same country.hes 25 & i m 22.hes a software engineer & i m still studying.
whenever i say hi to ne other person during chat he feels bad.he also asked me abt my looks.
he says that he wants to be my frend forever..
i feel that hes in love with me.
plz help
do u think that hes mentallyn ill?
2006-10-02 17:24:26 · 22 answers · asked by lk;lklk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think he is mentally ill, but you need to watch out for the motives of people who say they love you after 2 hours and not even having met you. Also if he is getting upset at you talking to other people after 2 hours of knowing you imagine what he will be like when the relationship progresses
2006-10-02 17:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Block him and don't chat with him if he makes you uncomfortable at all. Remember these are strangers, not actual friends. If you met someone in person who made you uncomfortable you probably wouldn't have any trouble at all giving them the cold shoulder. It doesn't really make sense to be more concerned about an invisible wierdo in cyberspace, but most people are. There are THOUSANDS more invisible strangers to talk to, you can afford to dump this one.
2006-10-02 17:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by strgoddss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can he be in love with you if you just met. He is probably some sicko on line chatting with anyone who gives him the time of day! Grow up and be aware of people. I'm sure your not that naive.
2006-10-02 17:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are spending way too much time on the computer. There is life other than on a computer. Why don't you do something different than chatting...like taking spelling classes?
2006-10-02 17:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by ta.frasier28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know. I have encountered that in my years of online chatting and surfing.
Be careful....don't give out any personal info and if he bothers you put him on iggy.
What country/state do you live in?
2006-10-02 17:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, he is most likely just your run of the mill cyber creep...he was probably there chatting up someone else while you were gone...please don't give him any personal information like name address or phone number and for petes sake don't make plans to go meet him..
2006-10-02 17:28:47 · answer #6 · answered by dances with cats 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I just think he's a loser who needs to get a life. Nobody says they want to be your best friend forever if they just met you. He's just like every guy in a chat room.
And please there is spell check, USE IT!
2006-10-02 17:27:33 · answer #7 · answered by c_mitu89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its just pathetic really there's so many bunch of people like that in chat room, and don't believe anyone in there really!!! If it bothers you don't talk to him anymore and block him on your list so that he can't talk to you.
2006-10-02 17:38:42 · answer #8 · answered by Dawn Treader 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but I think he is looking for getting some "free' some/
Jealousy is the sign of a control freak.
It is your life, decide!!!
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2006-10-02 17:37:28 · answer #9 · answered by guardianofdoves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think he is mentally ill just by what you wrote
2006-10-02 17:27:26 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋