When I go to friend's houses they have friends over and they bring there wifes or girlfriends ect., and it really sucks being there by myself, watching how much the enjoy their relationships. I do a lot of work on cars and my time is pretty much always taken up so I havn't put much effort into meeting someone but it seems like when I do its pointless because they are never interested. Maybe I should cut out some of my work time so I dont seem like a workaholic?
2006-10-02 17:24:00 · 7 answers · asked by Tyler 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
quit working so much and go out and have some fun and meet people!! Good luck
2006-10-02 17:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should organize your time better. Make time for you,
and give yourself a chance to meet women. Work on your
social skills. Talk to them about their interests, likes and dislikes.
Take the time to get to know them, and go from there. Sooner
or later, there maybe a woman you can connect with on a
friendship level or more than that. Ask yourself if all the work
you're doing is necessary. Do all the necessary work first,
and then cut back on the work that is unnecessary, or leave
it for another time if it can wait and is not urgent or important.
It's ok to be a workaholic every now and then, but you can't
do it indefinitely, or you will burn out and end up with health problems. You need to make room for the other parts of your
life, or you run the risk of being an unbalanced person. Make
time for your hobbies, interests, exercise and other things. The more interests you have outside of work, the more likely you're
going to find someone who shares some or all of your interests,
and find someone you can connect with.
2006-10-02 17:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by Answerer17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might cut down on your work time but also ask your friends if they know anyone or if their wives/gfs do. Meeting people through friends is the best way to go. Good luck and be patient (it will pay off in the end)
2006-10-02 17:29:58 · answer #3 · answered by mizindependent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
work on your social skills. wherever you see a pretty woman, go talk to her. flirt. make friends with guys who are good with women. offer to buy the guy a beer in exchenge for some help/ knowledge. take up hobbies that you enjoy where you can also meet women as friends. have male/female friends introduce you to their friends.
2006-10-02 17:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by lucas m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to put so much pressure on meeting someone. Keep with your career, and when the right one comes along... things will fall into place.
2006-10-02 17:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by Nick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u answered your own question buddy. :) and hey, dont push the girlfriend thing... just keep yourself open, be casual and not desperate, and u'll be fine.
2006-10-02 17:31:54 · answer #6 · answered by lil'sammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well wat happens during weekends??
go to some place, i mean disco, bars, don't get drunk and do stupid thing but try to get to kno people
or u can ask ur friends get urself a nice girl like friendly talk
good luck to have a gf
2006-10-02 17:27:30 · answer #7 · answered by Gamesr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋