I'm 19 i have one child and I'm no longer with my baby father and i can't not find someone who want me or her

Answer 1

It can be very lonely to be alone. Concentrate on the things that matter, like your baby and the rest will come. Some guy will appreciate the fact that you are a good mother and see that as a virtue, not a flaw that you have a child. I don't think it's as big a issue as you are afraid it is.

Answer 2

Listen to what the people are telling you. I'm a single parent,
because my daughters father is in prison. I'm not looking
for anyone else. I been there done that. But since your still
young and sometime a girl thinks just because she has a
child she should be with someone. No think of your child first,
then your education and a job to support your child. There's always someone for everyone. Don't Worry!!

Answer 3

I think that sometimes, when you are looking intentionally for a suitable boyfriend, it seems like there aren't any prospects at all. Then the second you stop looking, someone "magically" appears. That's what happened with me and my fiance anyway. Also, if you do happen to meet someone and they don't accept the fact that you are a mother, then they obviously aren't the right person for you. The way I see it, because of your child, any relationship you get involved in, if the guy wants to be with you, he is going to have to accept your child as well. You are now a "package deal". Anyone that doesn't realize that fact is someone that doesn't deserve your time, attention or your love in the first place.

Answer 4

Is her father playing a role in HER life? Most guys are looking for a girlfriend not an instant family. You need to let guys know (when they find out you have a child) that you are not looking for a father for your child, that she already has one. But if her daddy is a loser and not around then you may just have to wait for a more mature man to come along that will take on the extra responsibility. They are out there but just few and far between.

I am not with my sons father but he has him all the time and pays child support so it is easier for me to go out and meet people alone rather than to only meet people when I am out with my son, ya know. It does make guys uncomfortable too if a child is ALWAYS around and they want quiet and private time with you.

Answer 5

I feel for you Hon. I know exactly what you are going through. I always wanted a "daddy" for my kid so I would go and start dating someone and the min my kid got used to calling him "daddy" they were gone.
Then the next kid came along and then there was me and 2 kids. Really attractive huh?

6 kids later and many yrs of growing and maturing showed me that I didn't need any one else but my kids. ALL the men I have been with since the birth of my first child 18 yrs ago have left me but I still have my kids and my Jesus.
Concentrate on your child and when you least expect it>>>>
POW>>>there he'll be.

Answer 6

u need to be a good mother to your child and stop worrying about finding a man. what do you want another 3 kids from different fathers??

Answer 7

Hey you are only 19,enjoy being 19 and spending time with your daughter,as before you know it she will be at school.Believe me there is some one out there who is meant to spend the rest of his life with you,he will come into your life when he is meant to.

Answer 8

what is the rush.what you need is go to school and make sure you can make a living for you and your baby.you don't need a man.you never know the sick men are out there. ? now days that is why you have to stand up on your own feet......fine a job ...first the baby then you

Answer 9

If you need someone you can have me im 22 and single as well as good around kids

If you want to get to know me heres my mailing address:[e-mail]

Answer 10

hi i'm 19 too single no child though maybe we could get to know each other better my email address is [e-mail] or u could add me to ur messenger my im is lexes55