2006-10-02 16:56:42 · 23 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask for forgiveness,,,,,,,,,, your actions will speak better than material things,,,,,,,,,, be sincere with her.
2006-10-02 16:58:47 · answer #1 · answered by avery 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jeez.... that's a though one, my wife cheated on me and it took me a while to get over it because they kept contacting each other and she refused to stop doing it but two years later I had the balls to confront the guy; it wasn't that I tried to beat the crap out of him I just wanted to meet him and try to see what did he have that I didn't have meeting that guy was interesting by the way because I didn't hate him it was more about what my wife had done. But after I met him I think he got a little bit scared of me the good thing is that they never contacted each other again and that really helped a lot.
But show your partner that this person is no longer in your life and don't send secret emails or phone calls... you might just make things worse. I'm not sure if I forgave my wife 100% but things are improving (mind you this is 2 years later) so yeah... those scars can stay there for a while... try not to talk about this and be honest with your partner, remember to compliment and criticize less... and be patient... if they are still around it's a good sign... now it's up to you to keep her/him around.
2006-10-03 00:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by smarius11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I were the girl you cheated on, it would take a LOT to convince me youre really sorry and wont do it again. If you really like her, do a bunch of little things to show her you care, like buy her flowers, call her just to say 'hi'. Tell her how much she means to you, etc. And say youre sorry about a thousand times.
2006-10-03 00:02:17 · answer #3 · answered by cfschweppes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sorry you cheated or sorry you got caught? I don't think there is any way to say sorry, because the answer is you shouldn't have cheated to begin with
2006-10-03 00:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not to mention it to begin with- the main reason people confess to their innfidelity to their partner is to relieve themselves from guilt. thats selfish. if your not married, then your not tied to that person which states your freedom to do whatever you choose, and who with. i dont practice what i preach on the issue, but i know right from wrong. if youve talked to your partner about "being exclusive" then shame on you. you should of thought about the consequences before hand. if your married, then its a different story- your going against your vows. dont be surprised either way if your partner forgives you or not. if she does- realize it doesnt mean its ok to do it again. if she doesnt forgive you, its the end for you 2. theres no amount of money or flowers or words thatll heal your relationship to the way it was. sorry.
2006-10-03 00:13:02 · answer #5 · answered by Candymoonangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is something that has to come from the heart. you just cant buy this persons feelings or trust back. this is something you have to figure out on your own. keep it simple, true, and make sure you let that person know you messed up and how sorry you are about that. leave them with your love and some time to think it over.
2006-10-03 00:04:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allow her to go her own way without stalking and calling her every couple of minutes. When she sees another man, tell her that you hope that he is a good fit for you if that is where she decides to bo. Stop worrying about trying to be her man and grab onto being her friend.
2006-10-02 23:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you screwed yourself big time. trust is important and you will always be questioned on this now. can you handle being questioned constantly? own up to your mistake by actions and not words. you are in the dog house and I don't envy you, but I believe people make mistakes, its what they do afterwards that counts. i don't know if you can make things right, but hopefully you at least learned something.
2006-10-03 00:24:24 · answer #8 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a giant diamond like Kobe did.
Or really, there is no way, its probably the absolute worse thing you could do to someone. I would never be able to forgive someone who did that to me.
2006-10-03 00:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by Misch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Impossible. She will never, ever forget it. For years her mind will wander to what was she like, is she prettier than I, is she smart, etc. So many thoughts that you can't count them.
When you have sex, she'll wonder if she's good enough.
So, just let it alone so she can leave her thoughts to herself and not torture you with them.
2006-10-03 00:00:37 · answer #10 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
admit your fault. and talk to her sincerely but make sure you wont do that again. because if you did, its really very painful for the girl. if the girl really loves you and ready to give you another chance, prove to her that it was only temptation and never do it again...and always put in mind "dont do to others what you dont want others to do unto u".
2006-10-03 00:04:25 · answer #11 · answered by moirah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋