2006-10-02 16:53:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
have you tried acting like a lady?
2006-10-02 16:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥~ *CHEEKY* ~♥~ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have to evaluate what it is you are looking for, what you will find is that you probably like the roughnecks which for the most part are not ready to settle. More often than not, the "nice" guys are either too weak in your opinion, good friends (like a brother to you), don't have enough, or not attractive enough. Look closer to home and search more for what is in the mans heart and where his head is, but you have to have yourself together. Often what you are looking for is usually right beneath your nose. Make sure you have yourself together and don't play games, don't ask questions or do things to test a man just for the response. Know what you want, but be prepared to have to work and compromise, but don't accept mistreatment, last have more than your body to offer, and don't let that be your only weapon to keep him in check. What you got many other women have as well.
2006-10-03 00:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by Willie_Spencer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to play them dont let them play u !, take control over any relationship! u have the power to! pr can flip it treat them like dirt or my personal advice is take control believe or not guys like that in a girl and a guy who dosen't is little punk ***-prin fag and hes nothing anyway and a real man would respect u anyway and if u need to get out of your comfort zone of wherever u are and get and go strutin in a unfamilar area where nobody knows u and find some one new and dont stay hooked to one guy ... keep going dont get held down get dumped by oops u have another on back up and u can drop as many as u want if u keep em comin but really get out of ur comfort zone go somewhere u have never been and be a hawk for a day just spot em and they only treat like that cuz u let them
2006-10-03 00:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by lovepeaceopinion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most men are after one thing... SEX. You are not looking in the right place to find someone who will treat you with respect. What kind of a man are you looknig for? I mean not all men are pigs you just keep meeting the wrong ones.
Anyways if you wanna chat sometimes contact me.
2006-10-02 23:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
set standards.
A real man:
A real man can control him self in any situation,
though he may falter when it comes to sex.
A real man does not wear pink, but he can have long hair.
A real man will provide at least half of an income or more with out being asked to.
A real man respects you from the start with out hints.
A real man will do things your way first and his way last, because real men know that women are usually right.
And lastly a real man will be there for you and your kid, even if the kid is not his. And he will treat the kid like his own.
that's how my man is.
2006-10-03 00:03:06 · answer #5 · answered by trinityangelmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let them be like that to u i know i am having problems but i don't let them walk over me i mean sometimes but if i really love em then i do but look for a guy who has stuff in common with u and who really cares for u and who will be there for u whenever if gets bad and whatever it takes love is complicated i found that out after my first real bf and this is coming from a 15yr old but just take my advice because you'll find him sooner or later
2006-10-02 23:59:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry. Love yourself above all men and the time will come when the right man will come and love you. He will respect you and care for you once he sees that you value yourself.
2006-10-02 23:56:34 · answer #7 · answered by mariezernalynpalmares 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men will only treat you the way you let them treat you girlfriend,wake up we don't have to take no shorts tell them to get to step pin and don't let the door knob hit you were the good Lord split you
2006-10-02 23:58:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you could do it and get away with it wouldn't you? Don't have such low self esteem. Wait for the right guy and he will come along.
2006-10-02 23:59:35 · answer #9 · answered by Karen H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check it out, I have a woman and i don't treat her like trash. but ya know what, if she acted like trash I would treat her that way.
2006-10-02 23:57:13 · answer #10 · answered by drtyfckr 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Back off for a while and see what your trend is. Work to improve your self esteem, then you can go for a fella.
2006-10-02 23:56:21 · answer #11 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋