Has any of you waited around for your ex., and actually got back together. ?
Has any of you got back together with your ex after 6 months or longer (when the time you two split up she/he wanted nothing to do with you), and actually got back together with in time?
Is it worth the waiting (waiting on true love)?
When they wanted nothing to do with you when they split up and you thought you had lost that person for good, you actually got back together again after a long time?
Is any of this possible or has it happened to any of you?
I would love you guys to share your stories with me. And also answer my questions
Ones who have experienced this, tell me your stories.
Guys, I have dated alot and just let them go at times. This time instead of moveing on, I am going to be strong. This one is the Love of my life and I believe is my soul mate.
It hurts like Hell and Burns inside, but that is true love that is burning inside me.And I do know good things come to those who wait.
2006-10-02 16:43:49 · 9 answers · asked by stephen 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you really want a chance at getting this person back, you have to lay your cards on the table and be very honest about the pain you caused, what you have learned about yourself in the last 6 months, and why you want to try again. Absolute stark honesty, no veneer.
2006-10-02 16:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It certainly can happen. Even it if didn't , the time you have waiting is valuable for you no matter what the end result. The waiting will keep you from jumping into something else wich would be less desirable. I've known couples who split, and its only because they waited and didn't jump into other relationships, that the marriage could be restored. If they went with the worldview, they would have slept around while on the "break" and that changes everything. How sweet it would be , if you get back together and you can from your deepest depths say that you waited and had NO one else. It all the difference in the world. Best wishes to you. I think a year is enough, unless you feel there is a real chance. after that , you might be obsessing.
2006-10-02 16:49:43 · answer #2 · answered by Coco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of direction he don't have assumed you will watch the toddler on an analogous time as he went to the bathing room to help your 3 12 months old. and of direction you may no longer have assumed he became into keeping the toddler. Come on, you, your husband and your 3 12 months old are all interior the bathing room, and the toddler isn't. somebody no longer having a toddler in his hands is amazingly a large factor to miss, even on an analogous time as groping under the sink for bathing room paper. You the two left her unattended. i'm no longer saying your husband is harmless, yet honestly, how did you assume him to react? Has honestly anybody ever no longer gotten shielding while startled wakeful via a companion yelling accusations at them? you have woken him gently, stated what got here approximately became into nevertheless extremely bothering you, so which you want to talk approximately it, and then had a intense talk approximately the two one among you wanting to talk quite of assuming the different one is supervising the toddler. conversing approximately a thank you to keep away from this from going on interior the destiny, and what you the two could desire to alter to make beneficial issues like this would possibly not ensue lower back, could have been a lot greater effective than a shouting adventure.
2016-12-26 08:02:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not worth it. This is not the time to dig your heels in & make a stand. Move on, you know he has, so waiting for him to come back & travel over old ground with you is pointless.
It's not impossible that he'll be one day ready for you again but improbable. By the time it happens, you will have been waiting around so long getting so needy & desperate, that you will start to resemble Gollum, from the Lord of the Rings.
2006-10-02 16:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh for heaven's sake, dearie, quit indulging your martyr complex and go out and get on with your life. If he doesn't want to be with you, he isn't much of a soul mate. You don't have true love, you have true obsession. Go out, have some fun, and find that true love.
2006-10-02 16:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by hoodoowoman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course its possible. But its very likely that you are going to have the same issues that broke you up in the first place.
That's my story and I'm stickin' to it.
2006-10-02 16:50:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could of got back with my ex after almost 18 years , but i did not-i think if the love was really there it never really dies.
2006-10-02 16:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by gee-geeofmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move along ! It ain't worth the break up again !
2006-10-02 16:45:59 · answer #8 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah if yowl really luved each other or was really feelin each otha
2006-10-02 16:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by confused89 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋