Here it goes:
I have been together for 5 years with my BF.
He is great, caring and loves me. I too love him with all my heart and i am sure that he is the love of my life, except sometimes i find myself fantasysing about what my life would be without him.
Also, he sometimes makes me feel really bad, he has cheated on me and I have forgiven him, and he is very controlling (strong personality, dominating and very inteligent).
I love him anyway but sometimes wonder if this is my path. He doesn't seem to be in any kind of hurry to marry me. What DO YOU think?
2006-10-02 16:43:40 · 7 answers · asked by idontknowsquat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's normal to think about what life would be like without your long time boyfriend. If you are content with the relationship, then stay. Only you can decide what you truely want.
2006-10-02 16:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u could separate for a while and see how u both feel. It is not a good idea to have a man that is controlling and dominating. It will get worst if u actually marry him. I think u should leave him but i can't tell u to do that cause he is after all Ur man. but if he makes u unhappy more often than he makes u happy then that's what u need to do. good luck.
2006-10-02 23:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by luhver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave the guy and find someone else! if he's cheated on you...there shouldn't be a question whether to leave him or not. if that was me, i would of left long ago just coz he cheated on me. btw, no one can make you feel bad unless you let them. you seem a very nice person to forgive him and still be with him..if that was me....he's lucky i have not hit him with an iron pan or something. that's just me thou.
2006-10-02 23:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to queastion if this realtionship is right for you then its not. you are your own person and do not need some one to control you. those are signs of abuse not love. if you like to get you feelings hurt then yes stay witrh him and let him cheat. you need to love you and leave him alone if it was ment to be he will change his ways and find his way back to you hopfuly a totaly diffrent person.
2006-10-02 23:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you find out let me know. i want to be married to the love of my life and he seems to not want it. probably cause his exwife cheated on him. but anyway, i dont think it is wrong to fantasize. but i wouldnt take crap like cheating, from him. EVER!!
2006-10-02 23:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you see yourself in the wedding scene, look very closely. He isn't there. Probably never will be. You have to decide what you want for yourself.
2006-10-02 23:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by lollipop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Five years is long enough..
Time to commit or move on...
2006-10-02 23:51:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋