and then we patched up again.............now he meets me everyday and showers me wit love bt i tell him if he up to something n he tells he is jus making up to me as he relly sorry 4 the things he has done..........................can guys change?
2006-10-02 16:42:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once a Cheater, ALWAYS a cheater.
Dont fool yourself, dont rationalize. He will cheat on you again sooner or later. He might be right now. And then he'll try to get back together with you and you'll probably take him back again.
STOP THE CYCLE!
2006-10-02 16:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by Kid A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question shouldn't be... guys change? It should be can I ever trust my boy friend again. The answer is NO. Once a cheater always a cheater. At the time he didn't think about the consequences of his actions and now he regrets it. Well... what he did has a cost associated with it. It cost him you. Accept his apology, refuse his affection and try to remain friends. Remember... he was with another person, and that person was with other people and those people with other people and he has allowed all those 'other people' into your relationship. What he did... doesn't make you feel special. Ever discover a gallon of milk that's gone bad in the refrigerator? Did you put it back in the refrigerator thinking it was going to taste better the next day? No! You through it out didn't you. Your a smart girl, act like it. Send a clear message to him by letting all your friends know what happened. And... avoid getting in cat fights... no guy is worth it.
2006-10-02 17:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by BeArPaW_4709 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any girl that fight another girl over a boy needs to check herself out ;your not married to the dude,your not engaged,so you really have no claim on him so anyone can change and i hope for your sake he has other wises you come off looking mighty foolish,always hold yourself in high esteem don't let anyone or anything bring you down or make you look common
2006-10-02 16:51:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can change, sure, but.... if you don't trust him why are you with him? Change is irrelevant if you don't have trust. Maybe in time you will but unless you are willing to forgive and forget- this time- move on.
2006-10-02 16:47:56 · answer #4 · answered by suninmyskies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man will only change if he really wants to. If you cannot trust him, what kind of relationship do you have?
2006-10-02 16:44:38 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its your time to cheat on him....he needs to be taught a lesson....quit hanging onto someone who cheated on you...its not worth it!
2006-10-02 16:46:37 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, please.......
You're just setting yourself up again.
2006-10-02 16:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't teach an old dog new tricks...however, you can teach a new dog old tricks! ...think about it.
2006-10-02 16:45:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is his last chance..
Be careful...
2006-10-02 16:45:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋