Why does it seem like so many middleaged men are interested in barely legal teens? What is so great about younger girls? How old are you and how young are you willing to go?
2006-10-02 16:42:13 · 18 answers · asked by *Amanda* 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They're attracted to them because they are generally easy.
Teenaged girls love older men because they know exactly what to say and they feel that being with an older man means that they are more mature.
This is not the case, any middle aged man that goes out with a 18 year old only wants sex and probably to boost his own self esteem.
Its just sad that the girls dont realize how disgusting the guy is until they are 25 or 30.
I know 14 year old girls that are "dating" 26 year old men. I use quotes because these guys are just using them for sex.
2006-10-02 16:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by Kid A 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I'm turning 40 next month and I was recently dating a 29 year old. It went well actually..... But I would say 30 is my bottom line. Most of the women I meet younger than that don't have common interests as mine. I think alot of it has to do with us "middleaged" men as you call them wanting to stay young, and if we can attract a younger woman it makes us feel a little younger and gives us a reason to hide our unsightly grays....lmao :)
2006-10-02 16:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by cajunpalomino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Several reasons, each guy has his own..Here is a list of some of the more common ones- Younger women are more fertile, better status symbols, more likely to be single and childless, easier to manipulate, more trusting, also, they tend to hang out in predictable places...college campuses, bars etc.. Thier is not really a good place to find large numbers of single childless and fertile middle aged women. In addition, younger women are more intrested in having fun, where as older ones tend to want to settle down or have an agenda. Also, a number of men who have saved themselves for marriage* either deliberately, or not,* want a partner who has done the same. Seldom seen a woman who waited that long and is still fertile. Past age 30, the chances of birth defects or other problems increase a lot.
Hope that helps.
2006-10-02 17:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by kljj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are talking like 35 year olds liking 18 year olds, then you are talking about some serious emotional immaturity. Perhaps they think they will be easier to please, that they are above them so much in life experience that they will be more comfortable. Maybe it makes them feel younger.
I am 28, and 22 is as low as I can go without feeling like a total perv. That being said I tend to date girls at least a few years younger than me, but maybe thats just the way its worked out.
2006-10-02 16:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not. My daughter is a teen and I adore her. I wouldn't want to date one of her girlfriends. I'm past 40 but could pass for much younger if I tried. Doesn't matter. My favorite women are over 40 or almost there. Youth is wonderful but I need a woman who understands me, not one who is beholden to me.
Don't get me wrong ... you are very pretty. Charming smile and beautiful eyes. Your question shows you have a lot of intelligence. I have lived a lot of life and have no regrets for most of it. I'm sure you are wonderful now and will mature into an absolutely astounding woman.
I might go as young as 35 for the right woman. Men who go for much younger girls have issues that you need to avoid. They say age is just a number ... that isn't true for a long-term relationship.
2006-10-02 16:53:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Younger girls dont have any baggage, and they aren't "looking" for something other than a good companion who likes to **** alot. Older girls (25+) are problematic because they are truly a bunch of battered, conniving bitches who in large part have lots of emotional scars and personality defects, no values, bad history, the throwaways. Most women available after 25 are the ones nobody wanted when they were 18. And to seal the deal, the same bunch of 25+ rejects all have their hooks out, desperately going for the biggest cash cow they can find, so you end up answering questions like "so where do you work?" within 5 minutes of meeting them. Oh yeah, and one more thing: men age like wine, women age like milk.
That's why. LOL
2006-10-02 17:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I'm not really middle aged-- only 26, but I'm not attracted to younger girls... I mean there are some beautiful younger girls out there, but i'm attracted to a girl who I know will be on my maturity level relationship wise. I don't know why guys are so attracted to younger girls. I guess it makes them feel better about themselves when a younger girl is attracted back to them. It flatters them I guess... I guess I'm not really answering your question... haha 23 is as low as I go.
2006-10-02 16:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by Rockstar 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it's because a male .or female for that matter, never get's over their teenage years....The older a person get's the stronger the urge to relive those years become. I am 61yrs old and all girls are as pretty to me as when I was much younger. God just prewired us that way.
2006-10-02 16:52:17 · answer #8 · answered by dougsr.8745 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, girl I think you are talking to all the perverts. My man and I had a discussion where it was clear that us girls need to do more to please our men. If you are interseted in preteens then you are sick, but if you are a healthy individual then you can role play. If you cannot handle that then get some freaking therapy. No preteen girl wants your grody old penis. Take it out on one of us women.
2006-10-02 16:48:09 · answer #9 · answered by aouija 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only 18 or older for me, but 30 is too old.
2006-10-02 16:43:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋