she get mad if i go to club but i tell her i dont dance with any one just go to hang out with friend. she dont let me go club anymore
2006-10-02 16:40:50 · 25 answers · asked by tim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your girl is a Bit ch! Get a new girl. Dancing is not cheating!!! As a man you don't need to put up with crap like that from low life women.
2006-10-02 16:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, it isn't cheating as long as you aren't messing around with another girl. But it is lying and liars usually get what is coming to them. If your girl finds out, chances are, she's going to be REALLY angry, not because you went to the club, but because you weren't honest with her to begin with. Trust should be the number 1 thing in a relationship, right up there with being faithful. Keep in mind that you may not feel like you are cheating on her, but because you aren't honest with her, she's going to suspect that you are cheating because you are lying by not telling her the whole truth and that is still considered lying even in the best of circumstances....especially by a woman who knows you aren't being completely honest with her to begin with..
2006-10-02 17:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by shortydolphin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not exactly cheating, but it is being sneaky and not being a very good boyfriend. If you don't want to see your girlfriend exclusively, and you feel the need to go to clubs to dance with and meet other girls, then you should end your relationship and save her the pain and aggravation.
2006-10-02 16:43:34 · answer #3 · answered by Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't let you go to a club? dancing is not cheating. although, would you be mad if she was dancing with another guy? chances are, you'd deck him. so if you actually like her, then don't dance with other chicks. not that its cheating, its just dumb. golden rule remember? do unto others as you'd have them do unto you. you don't want her dancing with other guys, so don't dance with other girls. if you can't handle that, then dump her, and try to find the 1 girl in the world that wouldn't be bothered by you dancing with other chicks.
2006-10-02 16:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by student 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not cheating. However, it's still betrayal. You did something behind her back that you knew would bother/hurt her. If you can't deal with not going to clubs, then maybe you need a new, more compatable girlfriend.
2006-10-02 16:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you tell your girl you were going to the club?
if you didn't, its not cheating but its the same as cheating in her eyes if she finds out.
2006-10-02 16:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is cheating u should only has eye's for girl no one else want to go to the club take her with you
2006-10-02 16:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by white_wizard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,she gets mad becos she loves u and u on the other hand lies abt clubing n dancing with other girls is to prevent unnecessary problems,all is can be understand,so is not cheating actually
but if i'm u,i'll choose to tell her frankly n get her trust n let her feel more secure cos if i dare to tell her,tat means there is really nothing cheeky inside it :)
2006-10-02 16:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by Western 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...if you are out dancing with another gal without your gf knowing....than yes it is cheating....you are deceiving her....but if she knew that you are going to a club and might dance with other girls and that she was ok with that....than no its not cheating.
2006-10-02 16:44:31 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes basically it's cheating, but cant u just go to a club with her? that would probably be fun right? : )
2006-10-03 11:48:38 · answer #10 · answered by jaaaaaaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋