the thing is, im also very shy and i cant bring myself to talk to her. i kno i must not be the only person with this problem. im really known for "not talking." i get appraoched by girls so that's usually how i get around. shes the same way but with guys but shes a little more talkative than i am. but since i cant think of anything to say, its an akward feeling between us. i need to fix this shes my date for homecoming lol, but she said i seem too serious, and i get mad easily cuz i got pissed she was carrying a lighter, but she doesnt smoke, she just thinks their cute idk lol. so my question is, how do i get past being shy, and how what should i do to change my her image of me. cuz im actually really patient and funny, although i can be serious but i think i am about the right things. how do i show her that other side of me everyone else gets to see and get past this akward stage?
2006-10-02 16:38:46 · 9 answers · asked by kkong25 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off calm down don't over think the situation. The hardest part is done you have this girl as a date on what will be one of the most memorable nights homecoming. Just right out tell her how you feel about her. Tell her your serious and awkward around her because you like her and being around her makes you nerves. Which is a normal feeling to have when your with someone you have feelings for. In telling her this she Will be very flattered and like you even more. Speaking as a female we love this kind of stuff.
2006-10-02 16:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by Nelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to get her to change, as you stated, is not the ideal way to go about it. You'll end up pissed for every little thing including lighters.
Actually, you dont sound that patient either.
Try watching guys and take notes on how they behave that dont get lots of girls approaching them. Theyre compromising and patient. Just a tip. If she's worth it you'll have to put some effort into it. No time like the present! ;) GL
2006-10-02 23:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish i could tell you some Magic Word's to fix this,but I can't.You sound just like my grandson.He's a Good look-n guy.He's not shy..I don't think you are either.It sound's more to me,like you are just ahead of this gal in maturity.Carries a Lighter..because there cute!!Take a better look around you..I think you need a girl that's a little more on the "smarts"side of thing's.Go to the dance with her.You can get through it.Use it for the chance to look for some-one..more your speed.You need better.
2006-10-02 23:54:26 · answer #3 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have some courage to ask her to homecoming, just try to get that courage back, think about how great it would be to talk and hang out with her, that may not boost your confidence, but it may help your determination. This is a hard topic, try to think of something that you did that you were scared of doing, but did anyways, its the same deal. Shes human too, she probably wants you to talk to her just as much as you do, she must like you to say yes to going with you to homecoming. One good trick is to think of a good ligament reason you cant talk to her, and I bet you cant think of one.
Good Luck
2006-10-02 23:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest to start a conversation by asking questions. That should melt away some of the shyness. When you feel awkward, stay cool you are only human.
2006-10-03 00:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by Mattman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drink a shitload of coffee untill uy r bouncing off the wallls and your shyess sould be destroyed by the cafeene and your true unshy persona will come out
2006-10-02 23:45:24 · answer #6 · answered by bossmaster5001 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...first impressions are hugely important I think. Sometimes you only get once chance to make a good impression.
But, maybe you can just be yourself and she'll like it.
2006-10-02 23:57:41 · answer #7 · answered by New mommy 2010! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how the hell did you ask her to homecoming if you are shy? you were able to ask her to the dance but you can't think of anythign to say?
oh well you are doing better than me.
2006-10-02 23:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by TT M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shyness is natural in many it is few and many it is more i think it can reduced by trying o.k
2006-10-02 23:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by vijay00022003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋