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2006-10-02 16:37:09 · 26 answers · asked by Amdramida K. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow! I'm really surprised at most of the answers, but maybe it's because I'm older. I'm still really good friends with my boyfriend from high school, and two other gentlemen with whom I had a long relationships before I married. I guess I can remain friends with them because these were really good relationships, we respected each other, and were really great friends to begin with. They also knew that I was ready to remarry, and they weren't at that time, so I moved on. My husband doesn't mind because this is how I was before I met and married him. No, the guys don't come to our home, obviously, but he does not mind my communicating with them to talk about our children, jobs, subsequent girlfriends they might have, and family. I guess I'm just different because I thought most people were friendly with some of their ex's.
2006-10-02 17:00:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am still friends with all but maybe 1 of my exes girl freinds and ex wifes. Some of them are just not worth being friends with so those I stay away from but am still nice to them If I see them. So I guess we are still friends just not close friends. If I am in a night club an we meet we might even dance and think about a one nighter. It just depends on you. or the kind of people they are if you can get along after the break up.
Best to just let them float away.
2006-10-02 23:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by Don K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really hard but my question is how long and how serious was the relationship. It really depends on those 2 factors. If it was short then may thats possible plus was it a bad break up. Oh and if you really did love him or he loved you maybe the old feeling will come back again, if that what u want
2006-10-02 23:46:59 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be done. I've done it. But both people have to be real about their feelings for each other. Doesn't work if you have to "pretend" the friendship thing is working when you really want more. Both parties have to be honest and mature. Some of my best friends have been ex-boyfriends....
2006-10-02 23:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by faithinaction1465 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its hard i know ive been there me and this guy i was dating were together for 4 months and we were constantly at eachothers houses but i got to attached and when we broke up here recently i couldnt help but wonder if he truly felt the way he said he did and he still wants to be friends with me i dont know if i should but i think you should tell him that you dont want to be friends so soon cause you need time to relize thats all he wants to be and then maybe later on when you think your over him try to be friends and see what obstacles that gives you but try to get over him first
2006-10-02 23:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by *t. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt work. Feelings are still there and it is too hard to take a step back.
One of you will become jealoust or get hurt... and it will be hell until one of you finally breaks and tells the other you dont want to talk to them again...
2006-10-02 23:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by misjes2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no contact for at least 3 months and then decide if you even want to be friends with him. Its not recommended but it is possible to have a good friendship with an ex.
2006-10-02 23:40:29 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is sometimes hard to do especially if you had a nasty breakup then if you are friends it tend to come up sometimes too. But it have to be 2 mature adults to be good friends after ..but it can be done.
2006-10-02 23:42:10 · answer #8 · answered by Mersani 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No No No. most especially if its the ex's idea. Next month you will be the girl on hear asking "how do you deal with an ex, that wont go away"...lol
2006-10-02 23:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by Aaron S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been able to be friends with an ex, it's just to hard for me. I've found that if you try and be friends, you can't fully move on with your own life.
2006-10-02 23:40:01 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋