2006-10-02 16:25:43 · 23 answers · asked by bodybuilderx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you stop looking is when you will find that special one.
2006-10-02 16:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my girl friend in a night club 5 years ago. We have not been in a bar in a long time. She was just someone who was tired of setting at home and was going with a girlfriend to the club to get out of the house. Me and a buddie normal bar hoppers was in there and I seen her across the room.
She is a very classy woman with money in the bank her car was new when she bought it and it is paid off. She has everything she wanted in life that I could see. And I was the same way so we merged it all. We have been living together for almost 3 years now and have had a new home built and are doing just fine.
So yes she is in a bar or night club. You are just afraid to aproche the nice ones so you think the only ones you can have are the ones you don't want in the bar. Trust me, Just clean up and be your self an just walk up and ask for a dance or just say hi.. would you like to dance. Then after the dance second dance go get your drink and go talk to her for a while. If you feel ok about it ask her if you can come over and hang with them. But pick the nice ones. If you get turned down it happens but it is the only way to get the good ones.
2006-10-02 23:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by Don K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try a church singles group or a club that is offering hobbies you are interested in. At least you will find someone with similar interests at the hobby club. Nice girls usually don't meet the man of their dreams in a bar scene, so you are right on target there. Do some volunteer work and meet someone that is genuinely interested in helping others.
2006-10-02 23:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by housemouse62451 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right here but, I'm already taken. Ha,ha! Seriously, you meet people in the most unlikely places. How about the grocery store? You would not be the only one looking I can assure you. Then you could take a class. In anything, doesn't have to be rocket science. Could be art, mechanics, woodworking, anything. Plenty of women take these classes to meet men. Do you jog? You can meet women like that. Use your imagination and be friendly - but not overbearing. Strike up a conversation about produce in the Grocery store, etc. You know what I mean. Good luck.
2006-10-02 23:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ya going to a bar don't think u gonna find a nice girl unless she just sipping not chugging but go to parks and open places in public that u can meet new people in shoot even try the grocery store
2006-10-02 23:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by confused89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, well I'm a nice girl, but not available. :-( LOL. But you know, there are a FEW nice girls that happen to pop into the bar scene every once in awhile, so don't completely rule that out.
2006-10-02 23:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truly nice girls aren't at clubs or bars they're found in churches, book stores, libraries, college functions and other places where brains or some sort of thinking is involved.
2006-10-02 23:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by Val C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You'll find her when you stop looking. Do the things you like whether it be going to a gym, biking, hiking, or shopping. When you meet someone that is doing the things you like you'll more than likely be compatible!
2006-10-02 23:32:40 · answer #8 · answered by SoCcEr AnGeL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am telling you this out of experience. Go to the places you like to go: book store, bowling alley, the mall, whatever floats your boat. You WILL meet people who share the same interests as you.
2006-10-02 23:30:34 · answer #9 · answered by All This and Brains Too! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends, if you are looking for a commitment, look no farther. she will come to you. if you want a sex buddy then back to the clubs, it is. go to the grocery store, or to the laundry mat.
2006-10-02 23:28:01 · answer #10 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋