What is wrong with me? I don't like girls and I don't like guys! What in the heck is wrong with me? I'm not sexually attracted to anything. (For all you sick-o's out there this includes any disgusting sexual things you can think of) Was I born without hormones or something? I soul-searched into all the sexual orientations and got nothing! I mean I'm a 17 year old guy for crying out loud! Everyone around me is talking about sex and everything and I'm just sitting around saying to myself "What the hell?!" Does anyone else (probably not) have this problem too?
2006-10-02 16:22:56 · 22 answers · asked by Nickname 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everything has a purpose in life.
There is a reason and purpose for you which you cannot forsee at this stage in your life.
There are men around your age that are late boomers. And it could even go into when your in your early 20's.
You actually are fine with it as it does not really affect you in a bad way. You just feel left out and it is concerning you because you are seeing how other males your age are reacting towards the opposite sex.
In this day and age, sex can be very risky.
So, in reality, there is a purpose for you not wanting or needed to be intimate with someone.
Trust me, it will all workout.
You are the type of person who will benefit more in life, because having a friendship will come first and you won't be caught up in whether you truly liking someone or falling in love because of the lust for that person.
So.....in otherwords, there is nothing wrong with you.
2006-10-02 16:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by sweetcitywoman2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with you. just because most guys are horny 24/7 does not mean that you have to be. its fine that you're not attracted to anyone or any gender at all for that matter, you just need to wait. If there is someone that will attract you, you'll be attracted all right. and if you had hormone problems like that, you wouldn't feel emotion, because liking someone and being attracted is not only a hormone issue but an emotional one too. You're fine. my cousin was like that until 2 years ago. he's 23 now. and has his first girlfriend. and unfortunately she's sexy, even from a girl's point of view. they're planning to get married too. so don't fret, you're fine.
2006-10-02 16:26:55 · answer #2 · answered by kpop_singer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you! And more than likely your friends are lying to you just to impress you. You have all the time in the world to find that special person in your life and when you do you'll know it. Commend yourself, for sharing something private, it was hard I bet, and hopefully you will get some results later in life, then watch out. More importantly you will not die or explode (LOL) if you don't get any, so be patient and everything will work out for you.
2006-10-02 16:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mark B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...this is really something you new...I meen every 17year old boy thinks about things like that,you do aswell,but you just don`t have the sense of it...I think it is more the fear getting grown up,have you aver had an erection?if not wow,that is weird,and I know it doesn`t help you much.look at some porns,is there nothing that can make feel a lil bit horny?how many girls have you dated?
if this doesn`t change after porns and girl dating,after kissing and touching,and so on,then you should look for a doctor.
2006-10-02 16:31:40 · answer #4 · answered by donatella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your talking about is A sexuality. It doesn't mean that your a perv or anything is wrong with you per se. Check it out on the Internet there are groups of people you may be able to meet with. Good luck and god bless.
2006-10-02 16:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by niaflower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at 17 your hormones are all over the map and maybe someone just hasn't tripped your trigger yet. Some people just have low sexual energy, too.
2006-10-02 16:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is such a thing as an A-sexual. not a lot of interest in sex at all. Talk to your doctor, maybe you do have an hormonal imbalance
2006-10-02 16:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly once u get2 kiss a girl (and u better get a GIRL) u will realize the rush that will go through u and then u will understand hormones but it takes time 4 some, but yeah atleats look at a mag and get an idead of what grl u would want and approach her .
2006-10-02 16:27:44 · answer #8 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RELAX!!! Don't panic. I was 22 before I went out on my first date. I was seriously not interested in anything to do with boys, girls or sex. It will all come together for you when you are ready. Don't dwell on the small stuff. (Your parents would be proud of you for not being sexually active........there are not many kids like you out there....be proud of that fact) Besides sex is not all its cracked up to be. ALL THE BEST!!!
2006-10-02 16:29:44 · answer #9 · answered by bammbamm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have the case of asexuality, not being able to be attracted to any body, and that is not normal , but you can search the net for complete details about it,
well i envy you i wish i could not be attracted to men, and that i need not fall in love with anybody so i will not feel hurt,or be rejected, sometimes i wish i could be just like you without prior emotions
whatever you have been given it is a blessing, you would be able to think straight about most decisions in life
of course i know you would have loved to join in with most of us but really on my part you are blessed
2006-10-02 16:27:39 · answer #10 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋