There is this girl i have been friends with for 3yr i really like her but i never got the guts to tell her so now we go to diffrent schools but we still talk.My problem is i can't date anyone else without thinking about her. What should i do?
2006-10-02 16:20:20 · 20 answers · asked by A train 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her out. you want to, you don't have any good reason not to.
2006-10-02 16:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if something hasn't happened by now, good chances are they won't. If you still think you have a chance, you won't ever know if you sit around obsessing, just be a man and tell her. If she lives in a different city and doesn't feel the same, she will let you know. But you must tell her or you are wasting alot of time. Don't hesitate, just call her now. You got a 50-50 shot. Don't wait till she falls in love with someone else and you turn into the person who has to hear all the details about how fabulous her new man is.
2006-10-02 23:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The friend zone sucks. Did you see that movie with Van Wilder, Just Friends. Pay attention to it. There is only one sure fire way to get where you want to be. Be You, if she doesn't want you, then it's her loss. You have to have the mind set that your're the ****, and there are plenty of women out there that would love to go out with you. I understand if it's a love crush where it eats your stomach from the inside out, but you gotta let it go if she doesn't reciprocate. Play the Toby Keith sone, "It's a Little too Late" if you need to get over her. Either way you'll be fine. I normally don't plug ****, but I found this book helpful with mindset.
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2006-10-02 23:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by Jaake189 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't ask her out you'll alway wonder what could have happened between the two of you. Being spontaneous can sometimes be the best way... don't call thinking you are going to ask her out. Just see how the conversation goes and gradually work into asking her out.
2006-10-02 23:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by SoCcEr AnGeL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before you just crack it open to her, see if there are any signs of interest towards you coming from her. if there isn't any at all, and you can ask your close guy friend about this too, then maybe you should hold off for a while, because if she isn't expecting it at all and you burst the bubble, it might scare her off. but all in all, i think you've got a pretty good shot >_- good luck!
2006-10-02 23:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by kpop_singer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you really love her, so you really must find out if she feels the same way, if she does not you could end up loving someone who does not love you are you ready for that, that is why falling in love is so hard, but you truly would only know that you love her if she motivates you and inspires you to exist and do what you do in the best way as possible, if she is the source of your joy,go tell her that, dont wait go to her and confess,make up for the lost time,she is what you have been thinking about it is unfair to other women if you date them but think of someone else, follow your heart, tell her you love her and be ready for the answer
2006-10-02 23:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT!! tell her! if you care for her that much that you cant date anyone else then just tell her already! if she doesn't feel the same way you'll be able to accept it and move on. you'll never find out if you never ask! cmon!!
GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-10-02 23:33:55 · answer #7 · answered by Chelsea C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to ask that girl out.
2006-10-02 23:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by fruitnroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth before she meets someone else and it's too late.
2006-10-02 23:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out.the worse what could happen would be to refuse you...and then you would at least know she has no interess,and could move on.
if she accepts it then Good Luck.
2006-10-02 23:24:05 · answer #10 · answered by donatella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Batter, batter, batter SWING. If you don't take a swing at the ball you can't hit it so play ball.
2006-10-02 23:25:02 · answer #11 · answered by sideways 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋