My 19 y/o boyfriend ( I am 24 ) received a call from a girl today on our way back from me picking him up from college;. He didn’t pick up the phone but at first lied to me about who it was he said it was a friend of his from class then about 10 mins later told me he lied and that it was an ex of his. Later on that day he was showing me a previous missed call from a friend of his and I saw the name of the caller before. It was his ex and he told me the truth and all but the name read “ Mariam YUM YUM “ I don’t know what to do. Should I bring it up to him??? Do I even have a right to do so? Sometimes when I tell him stuff he always says Im over reacting should I just say to myself that its just a name on a mobile phone; that’s it????? And if I should confront him how should I do it???/
2006-10-02 16:11:23 · 11 answers · asked by syaqub982 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey I have decided to send him a message on his mobile that reads the following let me know...what u think i wont send it for another hour or so when i read responses
My message would read:
Adam, Yesterday when You were showing me that your friend had given you a missed call. Proof that you weren’t lying again about Mariam calling you I happen to notice that you listed Mariam YUM YUM??? That’s an odd last name for an ex girlfriend, so I assumed it was a nick name kind of how you list mine as Suzy.Darlin.
Well I just wanted to let you know this without it being an argument. Unless you learn to let go of your past relationships we cant move forward with ours. Also all those pictures of those girls you slept with in your phone need to go too.
When you decide to delete all this from your phone and life, give me a call.
Peace
2006-10-02 16:36:37 · update #1
he shouldnt of lied about it u cant trust someone who lies . secondly tell him to be upfront with u that is if u still keep him .....
2006-10-02 16:14:11 · answer #1 · answered by aaron 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to look at the fact that he come out and said the truth 2 times. Maybe he wants to tell you the truth but is having a hard time. You need to sit him down and talk to him. Your heart will tell you what you need to know trust or dump. Just because he is younger don't mean much but you need to know his views on relationships so you know what and how he thinks. I feel at this point good old fashion talk will nip this in the but.
2006-10-02 16:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a liar always a lire. OK you like this guy and you want to believe in him, so give him a second chance. You need to teach people how to treat you , if you want him to be strait with you. you need to talk about it. If at a later date you catch him lying to you again, than cut him and kick him to the curb.
2006-10-02 16:23:43 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just simply ask him why her name is listed as that. A lot of people myself included have nicknames for everyone in my phone book. It could be thats what her calle dher when they were together and he just hasn't changed it in his phone yet. Don't make to big of a deal about it. But I would also bring up the fact of her calling so much. Thats what I wouldn't be happy about.
2006-10-02 16:15:26 · answer #4 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marium YUM YUM?? Are you for real?? I would have to say that he is either seeing/talking to her again or is thinking about it. Why else would you leave an ex's number in your phone unless you had kids together????
2006-10-02 16:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aw, the society we live in. You'ld be happier if all his ex's hated him...maybe even had restraining orders against him...because he'd treated them badly....but heaven forbid he treats you badly when and if the time comes that you break up. You're overreacting.
2006-10-02 16:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by lucyanddesi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, bring it up. You are his girlfriend, his personal taxi, and....? He needs to explain himself. Tell him "you gotta let me know something". C'mon. Would he not deserve the same if it was you? If you don't ask, you'll be stuck with these questions and never know.
2006-10-02 16:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by MoMoney23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have every right to confront him...my bf got a call from his ex once when we were together, he picked up and asked her not to call him again...dont let anyone fool you, stand up for your rights..
2006-10-02 16:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by Mila 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He can't help who calls him. He didn't pick up, it's not like he called her. Relax a bit or you'll drive him away.
2006-10-02 16:15:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to the cops before she cuts your d*ck off
2016-03-27 02:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋