How do you know if a guy is going to be controlling or not?

Question

If you just met him a couple weeks ago...what are the signs?

Answer 1

if he's always on top of you

Answer 2

a guy will ask u where ur going and who your going with. He will always want to be with you when ur going out or even to the bathroom. Some guys think they can control you by saying what u can or can't do. A guy might suggest to u that u spend time with him and not ur friends or family. There is lots of things. Maybe if u try to walk away from him he will grab you (like pushing u towards him)..

Answer 3

On a day to day bases there may be little things he may say or do to either make feel guilty or to sway what you do or your thoughts toward what he wants. He may even show frustration or back lash at a later time for revenge. You just have to take precautions and draw the line when you feel you are being over controlled. Dont let it progress

Answer 4

Controlling your time by making you wait and wait. Then blaming you for it.
Controlling what you do with your money or things and telling you how to handle them.
Verbal/physical gestures like storming away, Sulking, Stomping out, Refusing to talk, bad driving to scare you
Saying things like That's not what you said or That's not what I said or That's not what you did or That's not what I did
Putting you down, especially on what you do best.
Putting you up, praising or thanking you for trivial things rather than the big things you do, which demeans youe talents, time, and energy, while implying you are best suited to do trivial or demeaning tasks.
Belittling, Laughing at or smirking, Offensive jokes, Mimicking

Answer 5

If he constantly asks you questions about where you are going or who you are going with then that is a sign. Calling you to much or telling you what to do.Don't confuse controlling with a man who wants to take control. Men of course are masculine and want to know that they have some what of a dominance(it's rather cute to let them think that) over what goes.

Answer 6

Does he tell you what to wear, or tell you not wo wear makeup, and always has to know where you go and who you go with and has to know every little detail? If so, then he is probably controlling. Guys sometimes think that when they do this, that we know that they love us and what not. But I think it's a confidence thing for them. Good Luck!!!

Answer 7

1) doesnt like you talking to other males 2) follows you and seems to know what you are doing.

Also look up domestic violence web site they also have sign and signal you should know.
Sorry I dont know the url. Good Luck

Answer 8

1. When he answers you phone for you...even if it's for laughs and in funny voices.
2. When he calls you a lot...he's not romantic...he's controlling
3. When he looks at the screen of your computer when you're checking emails
4. When he dares telling you that he doesn't like what you're wearing
5. When he criticizes your friends

Answer 9

in my experience i've noticed the most controlling guy will put his hand on the back of your neck, while you are walking together, or just sitting, and if he does that you'll notice you'll feel very vulnerable. he can move you in the way that he wants to just with his hand there.

Answer 10

Easy, when he tells you whatever he wants you to be, the way he wanted you to be. Telling you like this," I tell you what, wear a red dress cause I say so." or "eat this one not that one" or "I want you to order this one." Controlling guys will not allow you to do your way but his way or no way.

Answer 11

Have to date him a few times to see. If he talks about using brute force to overcome problems or deal with people. If he bosses you.