okay there was this guy i knew along time ago its been about 13 years ,we dated but only for a short time ,i did somethings i should'nt have and he ended up hateing me ,the last time i saw him he was really mad at me,i want to find him i know its been along time and he probley want even remember me but i have thought about him everday .should i find him so i can tell him i am sorry or shoulld i just leave it alone .i feel like its something i have to do but i know where ever he is he is probley married and happy .i really want to find him ......please give me good avice okay and be nice
2006-10-02 16:09:50 · 10 answers · asked by dede2772 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go to a people finding website or look in the phone book ....
2006-10-02 16:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by aaron 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go 4 it!!!
if you want this guy to know that your sorry find him tell him and in the end you'll feel better and you'll have a happy ending just knowing that you did the right thing and if he doesn't forgive you.. he's a true IDIOT and you probably don't need him if he's gonna do that to you!!! I mean forgive and forget right!!
you probably already know what you need to do after reading this!!!
just take my advice i promise everythings going to go great!!!
<3DJ
2006-10-02 23:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it feels like something you NEED to do, than do it! Make sure you are doing it for the right reasons though. If you find him, say what you have to say and move on. If he is still interested in you, he will let you know. If he is happy with another at least you had your chance to apologize.
2006-10-02 23:22:06 · answer #3 · answered by All This and Brains Too! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a search engine like www.dogpile.com and enter his name in quotes "john smith" and do a search and see what comes up. I don't think you'll rest until you contact him and he might not be the guy you remember by now and you will find all that mental energy you have been devoting is wasted on the guy.
2006-10-02 23:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel its necessary to "condem" yourself. Then no one can stop you. But in my opinion. Some men arn't worth it. I would just let it go. But I'm not in your shoes. So I don't know what happened. Do what YOU think is right.
Either, suck it up and go find him.
or Find something better for yourself. And make yourself happier.
2006-10-02 23:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by divinekey3693 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. It he's married and you popped into his life, you might just be causing him more trouble. Find something else to think about instead.
2006-10-02 23:12:37 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I think you should let sleeping dogs lie and don't pursue him.
It wasn't meant to be. Why now, after 1.3 years do you have this sense of urgency to find this guy? Just let it go.
2006-10-02 23:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say it's been 13 yrs, forget about him, i'm sure he moved on and it's time for you to move on as well
2006-10-02 23:18:33 · answer #8 · answered by forbiddenfruit9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please leave it alone... You are more concerned about it than he is, I'm sure. Give yourself forgiveness, consider it a learning experience, and LET GO.
2006-10-02 23:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by Wendy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go and get on with your life .
2006-10-02 23:12:32 · answer #10 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋