I really like this girl, but she is a fairly quite person and since we have never talked to eachother i need a way to start a conversation that wont make her to uncomfortable. I dont really want to ask her out yet, i just want to talk to her. Any ideas?
2006-10-02 16:04:55 · 16 answers · asked by mcnabbeagles179 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just go up to her and introduce yourself and start talking. Talk about tv, music, movies or where you like to hang out. There's a lot to talk about.
2006-10-02 16:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 - Go and sit next to her, so she can get used to you being near her. You really don't want to take a quiet person by surprise.
2 - After a few minutes smile at her, so that she can acknowledge you.
3 - Ask her something- this way she'll have to respond. More specifically, ask her something about herself. What are you reading? Have you seen that movie _______? Your hair looks different, did you change it?
5 - Make a related comment. After she answers, share something personal about you, too. For example, she says, "I'm reading War and Peace", and you say, "I saw the movie, it was long, but interesting."
6 - Ask another related question, like, "I haven't read it yet because I thought seeing the movie might have ruined it. What is your favorite part of the story?" By asking another question, you're keeping her involved and keeping the conversation going.
7 - Smile alot and give her space.
8 - Tell her where and when you're going to be hanging out later and invite her along, or if you're not ready to invite her along, just let her know where you'll be and that you hope you might run into her there. For example, "I'm going to the park this Saturday with some people, you'd like them, if you're up to coming."
9 - Next time you see her, say hello and introduce to whoever you're with. This'll make her feel included and comfortable with you.
Good Luck!
2006-10-02 16:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by fruitnroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy to start a conversation with someone you haven't met. Any chance you have a mutual friend that could start it off? Other ideas for going it solo would be: just say "Hi, how's it going?" or "Do you have change for a dollar?". The 2nd sounds silly...but it really is a way to talk to strangers. Hope this helps...
Good luck
2006-10-02 16:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by B L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll bet she really is QUITE the person, but how do you know she's QUIET if you've never talked to her.
All kidding aside, find out what interests she has, & find some common ground there. It'll be easier to talk with her about something that is interesting to both of you, like music etc.
2006-10-02 16:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she is thirsty or hungry?, or what time is it and follow the answer with another a question!
or find out her interest and go off of that!,
or just be you, and say I find you to be very attractive or I think you are looking really nice today!
Or the easy way out, wait till she has said simething to someone near you or around you and comment in on it !!
2006-10-02 16:08:59 · answer #5 · answered by Christine O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy and polite girls are the sweetest. Try to get her comfortable and make sure you two feel equal. She doesn't have to open up if she doesn't want to, it's not like it takes away from her attractiveness. Whatever you do just don't force it. Make it a natural thing. The most important thing is for the two of you to enjoy yourselves.
2006-10-02 16:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
JKust say "hey how are you doing today?" If you go to school with her... ask her how she is doing in Mr. so and so's class. Or ask if she is going to the game on Fri. Just any simple thing will be a good conversation starter.
2006-10-02 16:08:39 · answer #7 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be your self, walk up to her and say hello my name is ---- I noticed you and wanted to meet you. Start a conversation , find out what she likes and what her interest are. Music, movies, sports, ext. She will respect you for having the courage to come over and talk to her.
2006-10-02 16:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile and say hi. Then maybe comment on something in her hands or the weather or something. Just be fun. She'll start talking soon enough.
2006-10-02 16:08:34 · answer #9 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she does not talk to you what makes you think she is going to start talking to you??????
You should just leaver her alone or maybe go with ur instincts and try talking to her be like so how are you i am ASDFGHJK what is ur name adn hs etells you and jst start a conversation be like do u like sports !!!
2006-10-02 16:07:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋