For about 2 years, I had an online relationship. It started out good, but then as time progressed, we just fell apart. He broke up with me about 4-6 months ago. We remained friends, but I still had feelings for him, but he chose not to return them. I finally got tired of it, and pursued another relationship.
I have a new boyfriend in real life now that I really like, and my ex is having a difficult time dealing with it. I don't know how to deal with him! He's making it so difficult for me to move on. I tried cutting ties with him completely. I told him that we could email every now and then only, but maybe that was too harsh. I keep feeling guilty about it.
How do I need to handle this. Should I just cut it off completely, or should we be friends? I just worry my new boyfriend would be hurt by it. What is the best way to handle this?
2006-10-02 16:03:27 · 13 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, my ex has told me that he still loves me. That's what I'm worried about. I don't know if it's right to be friends with him and him still loving me. Gah, it's so hard.
2006-10-02 16:06:39 · update #1
That's the thing. He makes me miserable. He was pretty controlling our whole relationship. He's got this hold on me. Gosh. I just need to have the internet disconnected, then I can get rid of him once and for all.
2006-10-02 16:13:13 · update #2
it's ok to talk to him as long as you are sure/confident with your feelings towards your bf... but if you're confuse and making your relationship complicated then cut it off
2006-10-02 16:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by simplyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even in spite of the indisputable fact that i'm not a guy, i think that what you're doing is disrespectful, considering you do not could communicate with any of your ex-boyfriends. besides, your husband has each good to sense jealous and insecure, considering you're giving him the reason to sense that way. considering you're a married woman, you may honor your marriage vows consisting of your husband and stay committed to him. you may go away your ex-boyfriends on my own and get on consisting of your existence. only think of the form you will possibly sense in the experience that your husband stored in touch along with his ex-girlfriends, and that would not sense too stable in any respect.
2016-10-01 21:14:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut it off completely. Else neither of you will get over it. I ended up doing the same, but was more of a 'I need some time away from you' for six months.
2006-10-02 16:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by kljj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can say by my own experience. The best what the guy could do with me he did. He stopped to talk with me cause i was really so obsessed by him. Now I'm free of that feeling.
And sure you will hurt your bf and break the trust if you keep talking with your ex cause all guys thinks that if we talk with our ex-bf is because still exists something
2006-10-02 16:08:50 · answer #4 · answered by Taz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's giving you hard time after the brake up. Stop e-mailing him. Stop talking to him. Don't feel guilty. Life goes on. Now concentrate with your new boyfriend.
2006-10-02 16:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by Mattman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're letting an online relationship take even 2 seconds of your time away from a real, warm, hard body? ? ? ? I gotta go. I gotta go.
2006-10-02 16:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's ok to be friends, but if you do decide to get back together with your ex, you should of course be honest with your current bf about it.
2006-10-02 16:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
Talking with y b/f is not good idea. Look forward not back for crying jork.
2006-10-02 16:08:17 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm still close to a couple of ex-girlfriends because of communication. tell your ex what is ok and what is not ok by you. if he can understand, then it's good. if not, then cut ties.
2006-10-02 16:10:18 · answer #9 · answered by fast24vveedub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yaaaa!!!!!
being friends will work, im really shure about this
and if your current boyfriend has problems with it
i dont think hes worth it
if being friends with your ex makes you happy you should go with it
2006-10-02 16:09:46 · answer #10 · answered by life4imortality 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋