My cousin and I grew up like sister's now she has moved to the city and is living with another cousin of ours. she won't let me contact her children. they know me as their Aunty and I miss them heaps I haven't seen or heard from them for about 1 and a half yrs.
We used to me really close. Now its as if I don't exist. My cousin who she is living with is a control freak and my sister is easily lead to do things she doesn't want to do. please help.
2006-10-02 16:02:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She is a grown woman and is capable of making her own decisions. It sounds like for some reason or another, she doesn't want you in her life right now. The only thing you can do is to try and contact her and tell her how you feel and see what happens from there.
2006-10-02 16:06:05 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about her mother....your Aunt...does she have any contact with the children? Perhaps you could meet them over at her house when she has them sometime.
Have you tried to contact this cousin and ask her what you have done that makes her forbid you from seeing these children whom you have obviously gotten so close to? What does she give as a reason? Is the reason one that you believe would have come form her, or perhaps been directed from the other controlling cousin? What would or does this other cousin have against you? Have you spoke to her to see if perhaps it isn't something that she has said or done, but maybe an underlying problem with the (first) cousin that may be making her act the way that she is?
Is there a man involved in any of this? Perhaps the children's father who might resent your involvement with the children?
What does your mother have to say about this?
Good Luck!!!
2006-10-02 16:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by lildragonlexi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the parent she has the right to choose who will or won't be in her childrens life. She must have some reason why she doesn't want you near them. You cannot go to the school and visit them - schools have policies about such things. You will just have to live with it. I don't let my sister near my kids - she is a bad influence socially and physically violent. She also has too much to say about raising kids when she has none of her own to know.
2006-10-02 17:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by obenypopstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww, i'm so sorry to hear this, but u know what u can do? i dont know how far u live from them, but u can go to school and visit them..
2006-10-02 16:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋