What would you do in my situation?Dump my boyfriend who I just stared dating a mont ago and who I've known my whole life because we were best friends of should I go out with a very sexy guy just because he says you are the most sweetest person I've ever met and I've waited all my life for some on like you to come along you have the most sexiest personality....And I've known him for 4 years....Please help me I'm stuck between 2 guys and I love both of them????
2006-10-02 15:51:24 · 19 answers · asked by Kayla H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you and your boyfriend are stuck in a rut. It happens to the best of us, then some stud comes by flashing his package and you begin to think of going with him instead only you don't realise at that point that one day it will be the same because people just get comfortable with each other. It is normal to yearn for when things were new and a bit more interesting but with time comes more adventure and with someone you know and trust you will find it works out to be even more fun. So stick with your boyfriend but feel flattered that someone else wants you. There is a top saying that I totally agree with; Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
2006-10-02 16:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are quite a few signs that you obviously aren't in love with at least the 2nd guy, maybe both. Eyes start wandering when A) you get bored or B] it isn't that strong of a relationship to begin with. The 2nd guy sounds like nothing but lust and a bunch of silly lines. I'd say at least give the first relationship some time to grow. Then see where you are from there.
2006-10-02 15:55:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lizzie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, I'd stick with the life-long friend, because he is going to really know you for who you are. The other guy just kinda sounds like he's trying to score. Really, though, all you can do is go with what your heart tells you. I hope you can sort things out, hon. Good luck and God Bless!
2006-10-02 15:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by kevin_p0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say stick with your boyfriend. I mean are u goin to dump this bf if another 'hot' guy asks u out? just stay with the guy that u like, or what your heart tells you.
2006-10-02 15:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by Courtney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personaly id dump the bf and go woth the other guy.
but sence i dont now them personaly as you do i dont now if that would be the wisest ov disisions for you
the question is wivh one are you most hapiest while being around
which man brings out the best in you
2006-10-02 15:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by life4imortality 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm let me share something with you.. i broke up with mine, after dating him for over 2 years just becuz someone else though i was ittt.....but after a while u went his own way and heyyy i lost my BF.if u love ur BF stick with him, i know we go through this feelings..but its not real....sometimes when a relashinship gets to tense we tend to get all scared (thinking oh my god that means no more guys ,no more flirting, no more messing around) guys go through this too, but plzzzzzzzz try to get away with ur BF and keep that guys off ur mind, good luck sweetie
2006-10-02 15:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U SHOULD KEEP GOIN OUT WIT UR BOYFRIEND !! THE "SEXY GUY" SOUNDZ LIKE A PLAYER 2 ME !! HE SHOULD OF TOLD U ALL THAT B4 U AND UR BEST FRIEND STARTED DATIN !! HE IZ JUST TRYIN 2 C IF HE CAN GET U!!
2006-10-02 15:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by just someone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a list of the things that you like about each guy. Whichever guy has more things you like, go with him.
2006-10-02 15:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with your recent boyfriend...knowing him your whole life is a big advantage..don't you think?,,,,remember " Actions speak louder than words" and that's for the second guy
2006-10-02 15:56:39 · answer #9 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well who treats you better..
who takes care of you
who do u kno better?
well life doesnt depend on looks all the time
you have to look at persons personality at times
so think about it and then take your step. its tuff i kno but u can do it ;)
2006-10-02 15:53:48 · answer #10 · answered by sexiincute108 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋