Well theres this guy @ work,Hes pretty cute,I mentioned it to a group of girls so before I could tell him myself word already got back to him & now he thinks im a coward & a big mouth.....Help! should I ask him out or just forget it?
2006-10-02 15:38:26 · 7 answers · asked by shona 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
How old are you? Get a grip sweetie you only live once no time for contemplating,ask him out.He won't think your stupid for finding out you like him from someone else.Men love attention any way they can get it.Go For it girl.
2006-10-03 08:28:30 · answer #1 · answered by mommyofsix 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget it. You should never "sh#t where you eat" so to speak! Good reasons to never hit on or date a co-worker:
1. Sexual harrassment.
2. If it doesn't go well, you will still have the humiliation of seeing him 5 days a week.
3. Half the planet is covered with men. Go find one of those guys to date instead of the one you work with.
4. Employers do not see your interest in co-workers as cute. they see it as a liability. One that could keep you from being promoted, earn you a reprimand, or get you fired.
2006-10-03 02:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by BadSarahBad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he thinks you're a coward and a big-mouth, then as far as I'm concerned, he's not worth your time. Even if he didn't feel the same way, talking like that about you isn't very nice, and isn't indicative of the type of person you should spend your time with.
2006-10-02 22:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by Holly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didnt mention if you are a female. if you are a female, well for me its not cowardness, and theres no way to be ashame of. its natural to be attracted specially if he is really cute. for his part he must be proud that theres someone thinks he is cute and admired him. theres no need to ask him, if he really knows it already. just let the time tell, or let him approach you. if you meet eye to eye, give him a smile, if he smiles back at you then thats a good sign. good luck
2006-10-02 22:50:45 · answer #4 · answered by Salvacionf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find out if he is married or engaged. If he is a free man, then try to figure out a way that HE asks you out. It is not a good thing for a girl to ask a guy for a date. I would forget it, until he comes and asks you out. If you ask him out and he declines, they will make fun of you. So do it the right way. Forget it, until He asks you !! You don't want to be *** backwards.
2006-10-02 22:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by Norskeyenta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Office romance can be a really bad idea. It complicates things if it goes well and if it doesn't go well.......
2006-10-02 22:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by K S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he knows, why doesn't he ask YOU out? he's the guy, let him do the talking.
2006-10-02 22:41:29 · answer #7 · answered by baseballandbbq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋