well theres this guy and i really really really like him and i thought he liked me too but this stupid ***** is stealing him just cuz she can get any guy n my friends r like well we liked him so steal him back he likes you im like how? so thats the question how do i get him back?
2006-10-02 15:37:39 · 26 answers · asked by shygirl27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If in fact he did like you, then continue to "be available" to him as a person and as a friend he can count on. Allow him to see your goodness and what you have to offer. He may be attracted to this girl in some way, but that may be brief. If he truly appreciates who you are and values it he will come back. If he doesn't, then you really don't need him anyway and there is someone else out there who will.
2006-10-02 15:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by Desi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with B L. I would vote for her advice if I could.
You can't steal anyone. Tell him you like him but let him make the decision. He will go for the girl he likes the most and you can't control that fact. If she gets him then you know he was stupid and then you know you don't want him. Then, she will be stuck with him.
2006-10-02 23:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is going for the other girl than he's not who you thought he was. Cut your loss, pick up your pride and move on, time to look for a much better guy. A guy that won't cut and run the first time another girl walks in front of him.
2006-10-02 22:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice would to let him go. If he wants to be with you... than he'll come back on his own. Enjoy life and act like there's nothing wrong... and soon, a guy that is into you the same time you are into him... will show you that the other guy missed out on something worthwhile.
Good luck
2006-10-02 22:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by B L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really my dear if he can be stolen back and forth then is he really worth it I think you should want to be with a man that wants you not one who is like a ping pong ball, look for a fellow with some moral character Can you ever trust a stolen man Think about it
2006-10-02 22:51:52 · answer #5 · answered by tricia5661 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant possibly force someone to like you, that man has a choice, let him decide for himself who he wants, you are so selling yourself short, look he likes the girl, chances are eventhough you get him right now, temptations will come and he will not be able to be true to you, basically what you have right now is a game, an ego boost, a matter of pride, i dont think you are in love, you just want competition,,,women instincts
2006-10-02 22:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want a guy that doesn't want you, or at least doesn't want you more than any other girl? move on, get over it, find another crush. This may bother him and have him reconsidering, wondering why you aren't pining over him and get you a littl emore attention from him... but seriously... even then you shouldn't give him a second chance.
2006-10-02 22:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by josh/julie m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts but, would you really want him back if he dropped you for another girl? I agree you should ask him if he wants you or not. If he doesn't answer immediately then walk away. I'm so sorry it hurts. It will get better.
2006-10-02 22:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably just challenge the ***** to a cage fight. That way, you and all your friends could find out who really deserves him.
2006-10-02 22:44:56 · answer #9 · answered by giliad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are very visual beasts. Change your look. Change your dress style, Curl your hair if its straight. A new smell, perfume.. I am a leg man, any girl in nylons, short skirt and heels gets my attention...
2006-10-02 22:42:28 · answer #10 · answered by me m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋