You're a loser...how do you get a girl to like you?

Question

You're among the lowest of the low on the popularity food chain. You don't have great looks and none of the girls you like like you? What do you do?

Answer 1

Only one thing to do. Get more confidence in yourself. If you continue to think of yourself as a loser, others will too. We teach people how to treat us. Do whatever you need to do to gain confidence. Women will follow.

Answer 2

First of all however way you feel about yourself on the inside, it will show on the outside. you need some self esteem, You probably look like a loser because you're convinced that you are one. Women can sense how you feel about yourself, if its bad, it will turn them off. Before looking for a girl, you need to change your attitude. If you want to do something that will give you self esteem, try weight lifting, or martial arts. These are very superficial methods, then work on your personality. The main things to focus on is to be a nice guy, considerate and understanding. Girls really go for that, combine that with your new physical appearance and you will be brimming with confidence. Make sure you do not let it go to your head, then you will be arrogant and it will scare girls away. Be confident but not conceded.

Answer 3

Some of the girls think you're very appealing.
And, SOME girls do not want to be "overshadowed" by a super-attractive guy anyway.
But you're looking at this from the wrong side of the mirror, because you have no idea whatsoever what WOMEN feel is attractive, because you're not a woman. Smile and say hello to the girls when you see them, and eventually the ones who are watching you will respond.

Answer 4

you don't need look to be in the popularity food chain you just need a good personality. if these ladys can't like you for what you are then they are not good for you. on the other hand you can make a 360 make over.

Answer 5

first stop seeing yourself as a loser ..other peeps will see the same thing...second find something that u r good at and be the best at it..fixing cars..computers..fitness anything... all u need is an egde and girls will like u for the things that u can do or know and then u will find someone that will also like being around u.....girls also know that looks isnt everything its personality that counts..

Answer 6

Change. Get nicer clothes. Exercise, get a hot bod they will love. Go out for a sport. Think positively about yourself, BE a stud. I knew a fat ugly kid in elementary school, everybody hated him. He moved away. A few years later I ran into him at a theater, didn't even recognize him, he had become a good lookin guy and had girlfriends all over him, it can be done, you need to 1, determine to do it, and 2, get a positive attitude about yourself. Sports to consider depend on your physical abilities, maybe football, maybe track, maybe baseball, or maybe not a team sport at all, it could be surfing or skateboarding, but whatever you decide on put time in to it, get good at it, get pride in doing it well and pride in yourself.

Answer 7

well first off bro, if your already lookin at urself as a loser, thats how other ppl are gonna see you. 99% of girls say confidence is what they look for. dont look at the ground all the time, throw your shoulders back, act like your somebody. you gotta start small. make friends with her first, find some common ground, and go from there. nobody is meant to be alone, they choose to be because they dont have confidence...

Answer 8

Get some self esteem, confidence, and a backbone.

Self confidence is very appealing...people gravitate toward those who know what they want and feel good about themselves...doesn't matter what they look like...I've known some downright homely guys, who were FULL of confidence, and they never were without female attention...

Answer 9

You cannot "make" other people like you. I think the most important thing is that you like yourself first. Women, unlike men, don't just go on looks alone. They look at your character and what's inside. Don't worry too much about your looks.

Answer 10

You must have some talent. My husband is not athletic nor was he very handsome. He won my heart because I loved his art work and he was very good at writing letters. Or maybe try looking for a girl friend away from your school--Perhaps at a church group, or a club, or in the neighborhood.