I am really shy. I cannot say anything to people. Any advice on how to overcome this? Thank goodness I do not know the definition of beauty at all. I am in the 2nd year of college. I know if I talk to new girls that are beautiful, I will be nervous. Any pointers on how to talk to anyone new in class, work, bus, library, cafes, and bookstore?
2006-10-02 15:18:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just talk your mind, just do not worry and just talk to them. That's how I did it. The more you think about it, the more nervous you going to be. You just have to do it!
2006-10-06 13:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was like this. But girl you have to take it little by little. Start talking to someone you don't know or use the internet. talk to people in your class or school. it's hard at first. you can talk about class work. what did you get on that text. Or did you see that cute guy. something. I hope all is well for you.
2006-10-02 22:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by lucille692003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
begin small. Talk to a waiter/waitress, store cashier, ect. and begin with people that you don't think are attractive. Work your way up. Confidence comes from doing. You will definitely gain confidence if you just make yourself begin.
2006-10-02 22:22:13 · answer #3 · answered by Lanna b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
comment on how they look, ask what theyre working on in the library, see if you can help with something, the weather, anything...just say heyy are you new???idk
2006-10-02 22:21:16 · answer #4 · answered by Kira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think. What could possibly go wrong if you go and speak with them? It's not liike they will laugh at your face and call you stupid.
2006-10-02 22:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by Your Wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋