I know someone I could probably go out with if I wanted to, but I kind of want to stay single/ go out with girls. I REALLY want to experiment with girls. How do I even find out if there are any girls who swing that way, and are interested in me? The thing is, I like the guy I was talking about before, but I want to stay free and experiment with girls as well. My G-d I want to do something with a girl! I'm pretty sex deprived as well... I want to seduce this guy in my Chemistry class and be "friends with benefits" with him, but I'm too scared to bring up the subject with him. Any suggestions?
2006-10-02 15:18:06 · 10 answers · asked by Israely Jew 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I hope the guy you like isn't a homophobe jerk, If he is, then drop him. I think you should resubmit this question to the gay/lesbian section of this answer site so as to get different, maybe even more insightful ideas that will help you. This issue does touch on bisexuality and gender bending, so I think you should put this question under their section too. You're not alone in your situation. Good luck & I'm sure you're going to do just fine.
2006-10-02 16:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by Bronweyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is that you first explore what it is you are looking for in your intimate encounters. Even the most provocative experience can turn into a bad memory if we are not prepared for how it will affect us, someone else, or the relationship we have with them. A great friendship, lots of communication, honesty and trust are the only things that can keep your experience ( what ever you choose) a good one, and ensure that you get what you desire out of it. Also, I might add that if you are young, ( say, under 21) you need to know that life is so full of opportunities, it is sometimes overwhelming. Be patient, whatever you choose ,the opportunity will come to you
2006-10-02 15:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being single some days, having a girl friend occasionally, and a boy friend, too, would be nice, variety being the spice of life. Being or having one thing all the time can get really boring. Whatever.
2006-10-02 15:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, please take some time to figure out what you want b4 you get into anything with anybody!! Being sex deprived isn't fatal and it doesn't last forever! Just take your time, and see what you feel, and what you want... THEN, take action! Don't rush it! It will all work out. Find something else to occupy your mind... ANYTHING else that's positive, and this will resolve itself... If you are looking for a girl, I can't tell you how to find her (no exp. with that) but I know that if it's what you want, you'll find it! And friends with benefits NEVER works like you think it will! Just remember to let it go for awhile and it'll work out! I promise! Everything works itself out with time!
2006-10-02 15:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by Risha Maye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some staying single is best, others prefer to have something stable. I like being single, but oooh! sometimes I wish I had a steady boyfriend. No girls for me though.
Terry
2006-10-02 15:45:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good to ask this in Mental Health section.
Your profiles show you are in Australia, but you take on this ID pretending to be in Israel according to some of your other questions.
You can take on different personalities quite easily, so Iwonder if you are as young as you make it seem. When you do meet a possible partner in Yahoo Answers, do they find out you are really a flabby 40 ?
2006-10-02 15:39:13 · answer #6 · answered by wizebloke 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow girl, sorry this is like every guys dream hehe. Sorry I am a typical guy, but id love that in a girlfriend. But serious, I wouldnt worry about it. Just relax, and let your feelings decide for you.
2006-10-02 15:25:22 · answer #7 · answered by allukcatsbaby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the friend. With some, you are better off without
2006-10-02 15:21:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're halfway decent looking I bet he goes for it, and it shouldn't be that hard for you to pick up girls either.
2006-10-02 15:30:33 · answer #9 · answered by Niche Jerk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
staying single males are nothing but headaches!!
2006-10-02 15:21:23 · answer #10 · answered by angel74 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋