2006-10-02 15:16:55 · 10 answers · asked by jaz_cute07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
jaz:
As one who is familiar with the pain of rejection, I can tell you that assurances are simply not part of the love experience. Neverthless, even though you might one day feel the horrific pain of lost love, it is far better to take a chance on a great love than to settle for a mean, hemmed-in, safe existence. If your heart has something to express, express it. True love is not something that is subject to control...it sweeps us along like a prarie fire, consuming us with feelings that change our lives forever.
I believe your profession of love to him will open the floodgates for his emotions. If not, if he rejects your love, far better to find out now. Great love is always conditioned on complete openness. I hope for your sake this story has a happy ending . If I was a betting man, I would say yes!
2006-10-02 15:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by The Heart Doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a woman do not feel rejected, that's not right when you hold all the cards, he's just making you think he's holding them.Stop worrying about him so much and think about you. Relax and he will too. The biggest turn off is insecurity, stop projecting that. I love you is all he needsto hear and if he doesn't say thank you or react in a positive way, girl, move on.
2006-10-02 22:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by dehba t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no 100% assurance. Some one has to risk saying "I love you" first. Hopefully the other person will answer I love you too.
2006-10-02 22:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by redunicorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot with absolute certainty that he will not reject you, but if you have doubts, you should explore the reasons why. Trusting him would mean that you would expect to be accepted by him--perhaps you don't trust him enough. Maybe waiting for him to say he loves you is the better way to go--let him make the statement first.
2006-10-02 22:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never know for sure, but sometimes you need to try go out on a limb and try it. If he rejects you than get up and go on living life. Because rejecting you could be one of the worst mistakes he ever made!
2006-10-02 22:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by Marsha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him online and maybe through some hints or ask questions or maybe even act like you dont know who he is; sort of like roll-playing it's like asking aquestion to the person without actually asking them.
2006-10-02 22:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by Kendall S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you can be totally sure is to let him say it first.
2006-10-02 22:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by Melie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truly love him, say it. you will now then if he loves you back, or if hes even ready to love you. take a risk.
2006-10-02 22:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him u should tell him no matter what. "listen to your heart" like the song :p or somehting like that
2006-10-02 22:19:40 · answer #9 · answered by Kira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can not
2006-10-02 22:18:55 · answer #10 · answered by Kevin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋