What would you do if someone in your family took her 3 yr. old to a nightclub for a punk rock concert. I have nothing against punk but I don't think it is a place for a 3 year old. And also wouldn't social services get involved if they knew about it?
2006-10-02 15:15:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sorry i should have specified that it was not me. And it was an all ages concert that she went to but still no place for a 3 yr old
2006-10-02 15:23:04 · update #1
Why did they even let the child into the club? Couldn't the owner get busted for that?
She is not much of a mother. Not concerned for her child's safety, or hearing.
2006-10-02 15:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Social Services cannot do anything in this matter. Was this the parent? You have a three y/o taken by a parent to an "all ages" club. Is it irresponsible? You bet. The noise, crowd and possibility of something happening are great.
I would however speak to this person and recommend things like a babysitter, or relative taking the child for the evening. If it persists maybe you can get an authoritative family member involved. Good luck.
2006-10-02 15:57:11 · answer #2 · answered by Bexcy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call me old fashion but I always thought that any event after 8 pm is not for kids, you don't specified the time of the event but I'm assuming is at night, which makes it wrong to have the kid there. Also I know a few people who take his kids with them because they can't afford a babysitter, can you blame them? well...I have four kids and I can tell that If I can't find someone who can babysit my kids if I have a social event at night I prefer not going. Now what is it worst ?...leaving the kid home alone or taking him with them and TRY to enjoy the concert? and....about social services getting involve....aren't other kids REALLY in danger, abused, etc., etc. taking a kid to a concert doesn't fall in that category.....to me at least.
2006-10-02 15:46:37 · answer #3 · answered by fun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I cannot believe that she would be allowed to bring a child into a nightclub. If a person is not 21 they cannot be in an establishment that serves alcohol...even with a parent/adult. Even if the adult/parent is not looking out for the child, the manager of the establishment should be.
2006-10-02 15:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by jkskeet@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Social services wouldn't be hanging out at such a place. If I was there and I saw a three year old there would be nothing that I could do about it except maybe tell a bouncer. Why, did you bring your child?
2006-10-02 15:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by steffy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
night clubs is for grown ups only and no its not good for her to take a 3 year old to the club and besides that 3 year old should be in the bed that time of night.she's old enough to know that is
wrong tell her butt off and let her know that is wrong,don't be around the bush,speak your mind and later on down the line she will thank u later or before the children and families services get her.
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2016-12-26 07:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by boynton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was an all ages concert and therefore she's not breaking any rules in taking her kid. I agree it probably wasn't a great idea but to each their own.
2006-10-02 17:06:47 · answer #8 · answered by cgspitfire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋