Earlier he used to be my best friend n i shared every secerts wit him,i kw him fr 2yrs n fr two long yrs i didnt had ne friends becoz he doesnt like dat i shouldnt talk to ne body i hav explained him in every gud aspect dat even i need to talk to others but he alway feels dat i only want friends, he is very possesive, so i am bit afraid, i hav made him understood dat we cant live together, but everytime he gets very angry, i really feel dat i am living in a cage, i explain him everything of wat i do n i feel dat its my responsiblity but he never share's ne thing, he thinks dat i am suspecting him, he has once tried to commit suicide once whn i left him so i am really afraid, he doesnt want me to work if i get married to him, so wats the need of my parents spending huge amt of money on my studies, he has also beaten me up n insulted me in front of teachers n alway he says dat forgive me i wil change but everytim he scolds me fr nothing wat should i do ?
2006-10-02 15:10:07 · 12 answers · asked by jasmine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ya i know u deserve better kind of LOVE, then what you getting from him...but still he has not cheated u....Must b he is over possessive abt u.....that's y he don't want u 2 talk with any one n make friends....take it in Positive manner....he did suicide 4 u n u know that Life is Love able 4 every one......but still he did....i think that he is not bad at heart only some of him attitude is not gud..give him one more shot and tell him i am going to give u one more chance........ If you leave him, you should make sure to stand your ground and never go back or you are throwing all self respect out the window........means u Dont hv any way back...try 2 find out what were the circumstances that lead him to do this? How does he behave around you? Does he genuinely love you. We are all human beings and do make mistakes as some of us arent' strong enough to deal with emotions. In this case, it would be best to forgive. But if he just cheated on you for no reason, then it would be best to end it.
2006-10-02 16:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i am not wrong your boyfriend must be Aries or Leo aneways as you mentioned that he is possesive about you in this kind of cases the person treats you like a precious commodity rather than a loved one even a human , if you want this relationship to continue then you have to act smart and insult him indirectly to make him realise that he is wrong . You can do that by telling him that your friends dont like him or your parents dont like him moreover your teachers have complained to your parents about the drama and everything but you have to act slow and smart , else what i suggest is that you leave this person asAp and dont expect for him to change when you leave him, time is never the cure for these kind of people.
Have a good life
2006-10-02 16:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not that he is pocessive you are also pocessive. If this is the state before you have got married God only should save you both. It is difficult to change this attitude. Better quit this friendship. You can never carry on. You are going to commit suicide if you get into relation with him. He will never die. So far you are free now you will get into a cage if you marry him and end up killing your self or start having slow poison
2006-10-02 17:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by lkslalit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you are being emotionally blackmailed by your boyfriend, And it also appears that there is nothing much left in your relationship except your fear that he might attempt suicide if you leave him. Well, the choice is simple - ask him that you are leaving him as you can't go together and let him do whatsoever he wants to do, if you wish to end the relationship without making further complications.
Or else, you may warn him that you are going to complain to police about his misbehaviour and harrassement and I am sure he will leave you alone peacefully.
2006-10-02 17:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by BT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN dont walk away from this situation. Tell someone, get help, you dont need that kind of stuff, you are better than that and you can find a guy that will treat you right girl, and all the girls on here will gladly tell you that. Call someone SOON!!
Good luck and much love
2006-10-02 15:14:30 · answer #5 · answered by theblonchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh, come on! you understand what that is, do you quite imagine maximum folk might want to assert that that is ideal habit of a married guy? in case you want sympathy, bypass for your spouse and tell her what you're as a lot as. you do not imagine she'll sympathize? you understand your answer. you aren't any further getting any help right here.
2016-12-04 03:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i tell u abt guys. if they know how to treat you,and wht is ur weak point, he'll always playing with u, act just like him. b aggressive. and first thing first tell someone elder in ur family. it kind of protective. tell him its your life. u can live however u wnt.
dont care abt him. dont look after his problems. dont u loose ur life. plz.
2006-10-02 17:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by ttoottoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him relationship work in both ways, if he wants to wants you to respect him, tell him he should treat you with even more respect.
Beating up is also unforgivable, you cant hit someone and tell them you love them, its just not right.
2006-10-02 15:13:32 · answer #8 · answered by Joy Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is quite better for u that u have to take nessesary steps like in 'yes' or 'no'.ok,now ur mature enough to take ur decisions ,see we dont know that guy, so how can any person say that" that guy is right or wrong, hope ur getting my point.
2006-10-02 16:58:19 · answer #9 · answered by mayank t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have left him as soon as he put a hand on me!
Please leave him, or tell someone who can help!
2006-10-02 15:21:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋