o.k i have this problem that i get to shy to approach a girl during school, or while she is walking or anything like that to me its like what can i say butt like at a party or some thing lik that i could approach girls with no problem alot of girls always look at me and smile i know they want me to go talk to theme but i just dont know what to say so i end up looking the other way they probably thinck
im stuck up or something can some one give me a good pick up line........im from watts i shouldnt be shy........
2006-10-02 15:09:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be yourself. make sure that she's on the mood for some talk and introduce yourself. express yourself and tell her that you wanna be friends w/ her., no need for picking up lines i suggest., just be yourself.
2006-10-02 15:13:32 · answer #1 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend that you build up your self confidence because girls are attracted to confident men, plain and simple.
Women get approached more than you think by weirdos and perverts. For this reason, women automatically put up their defenses when a guy approaches them. They become more critical and irritable. How do you get her to drop these defenses? Be friendly, smile, and keep the mood light. If you are nervous, she is going to know that you are trying to pick her up.
Also, don't try to "pick her up." Most likely she thinks that is the only reason you are talking to her so don't act like you are trying to pick her up. Just carry on a conversation, chat, make jokes, heck, don't be afraid to disagree with her, tease her… anything goes. Treat her like you would anybody else and she will notice and drop her barriers.
If you still can't get your confidence u could get a friend to help u.
-If the girl is in a group , going in as a pair(get your friend) is a lot less intimidating than if you had to solo a whole group of girls.
-If you are too shy to talk to the girl yourself your friend could help you break the ice and make the introductions for you.
2006-10-02 15:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by girl123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of a girl as your next best friend, and talk to them as you would a friend. Good luck.
2006-10-02 15:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think of all s as potential gf's.. think of them as friends.. that should help a little.
2006-10-02 15:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by Kira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋