Well, i'll say it pretty straight forward. When my girlfriend is around single guys i get nervous and shy. I don't act like I do with ehr when we are alone or with my good friends or friends that have there own girlfriends
HELP!!! what can I do to overcome this
2006-10-02 15:03:55 · 14 answers · asked by daniel y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get to trust your girlfiend Because if she want someone esle. She will do it in front or behind your back. Life is too short to worry about that . Too many girls in the world to worry about one
2006-10-02 15:14:57 · answer #1 · answered by badmama28145 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not nervous and shy, you're lacking confidence. Your self esteem is on the low huh? Are you worried that your friends or the better looking men out there are a threat????
She must be pretty. Advice: Do not tell her. Your lack of confidence is a turn off. Also, you need to up your self esteem and feel better about yourself so do something new like work out or ANYTHING.
If you trusted in her love, you wouldnt worry about theses things also. So if you know she truly loves you, then relax. INstead of taking on a shy demeanor while in a social setting, stand tall and be proud cuz she is with you!!!!
2006-10-02 15:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by triciasdish 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be insecure. The world is a big place. And everything happens for the best. You may get a better girl friend. Be confident. Read "the Magic of Believing" by Claude M Bristol. And also "Creative Visualization" by Shakti Gawain.
2006-10-02 15:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by prad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all boils down to trusting your girlfriend. If you trust her, you would have no reason to be worried about single guys. She's your girlfriend for a reason, and hopefully that reason is because she likes YOU and cares about YOU. Trust is one of the most important factors in a relationship; without trust, you will get nowhere. Just try to remember she wants to be YOUR girfriend and not those other guys' girlfriend. Plus, confidence is sexy. :)
2006-10-02 15:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by linzel_03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you get nervous or shy? Act like a man and show those single men what its like to have a woman your proud of!! :)
2006-10-02 15:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nervous how? You feel inferior to other guys? You feel like she might prefer one of them?
Try being proud she's your girlfriend and standing by her with a smile...why feel shy around other guys with her? She's your girlfriend, not theirs...make sure she knows you appreciate her and those other guys know she's not available
2006-10-02 15:07:56 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there will always be someone better than you in some regard. but you just can't tell what a female truly sees in a guy, romantically. just trust her. either she's with you or not. if not, there are plenty of other available ladies out there.
2006-10-02 15:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being an emotional guy... loser.
Or just get drunk when you're around those guys.
2006-10-02 15:05:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just pretend like they're not there.
2006-10-02 15:06:12 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Love Love♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't worry , unless im around her cuz i'd bag that bytch
2006-10-02 15:05:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋