I'm dating someone who is a commitaphone and used to be a real big flirt but calmed down a lot and actually commited herself for the most part.
But now we near our 1 year anniversary and she realizes our relationship is eventually going to get further and is kinda questioning whether she wants to be with me and/or if she is really ready to give up those other dating experiences anytime soon.
So if anyone has been through something like this or is willing to give advice be my guest ^^
2006-10-02 14:56:06 · 4 answers · asked by phoenixblurf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey ive been through this before and now am approaching my 1 year anniversary as well. i was in a 2 year realtionship before this one but before that loved to date guys but could only do it for not much longer than 3 months. i dont think she doesnt love you, more that she may feel like you may hurt her, especially if she has been hurt in the past. it seems to me you would not hurt her in anyway but if she has been hurt before , there is no doubt she may think she will be hurt again no matter what she says. the only reason why she may want the single life again is mainly because in single life most of the time she may feel she has the control. for example a bad date or experience she could just try to forget and write it off, but its much harder to forget and not feel hurt if a relationship breaks down, so that may be way she is thinking of the easier option of being single, but really i dont think its always the easier option unless it helps you to become a stronger and more interesting person but if if single life just causes more pain and insecurity then its not worth it.
2006-10-02 15:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by emjayjoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One piece of advice, if she is questioning whether or not she is done experiencing the "dating game", if you will, and is going on her one year anniversary with you, then she is probably not content in her relationship. No, there is no way for you to ease her "itch". Some people have to experience a little more of life than the rest of us. Perhaps, she is one of those people. I'm not saying that she is going anywhere, but don't be surprised if she does. But, don't give up on her either. If you want to commit, then tell her so. She'll let you know what she wants. Good Luck!
2006-10-02 22:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can tell you this...I am just like your girlfriend. My partner and I are near our 1 year and I am getting freaked out. I have not had any relationship last more then a year because I push them away. My partner is the best thing that has happened to me. One reason because she hasnt given up. She has stuck threw it because she loves me for me. And all I can say is if your willing to stick threw it and you know shes the right one for you.....stick threw it. And me seeing her stick by me...I have settled down and well I am not going no where. And when I push she pulls me near. So when she is pushing you pull her near and don't give up if she is really what you want in life.
2006-10-02 22:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by playwitdamind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang in there!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-02 21:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋