This is ment for guys and girls. What should you do if you like two people at the same time. You are not dating anyone. You have a filling that both want to date you. You do not want to hert eather but you do want a relationship? How do you deside? More importantly how would you keep from herting both of them?
2006-10-02 14:49:22 · 16 answers · asked by Zachariah M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
O so everyone knows this is already over with I just wanted to know if anyone in the world would really do what I did. Lets see if anyone thinks like me?
2006-10-02 15:11:29 · update #1
Also one person posed like I was a girl looking for a guy and now everyone followed.
I AM A GUY TALKING ABOUT TWO GIRLS.
2006-10-02 15:13:38 · update #2
It seems like you are enjoying all the attention and secretly you want to continue with this but you also want a real relationship with one person. You must decide which of these guys you are most interested in before getting involved with either one, or maybe you need to forget about both of them because you are not truly ready to become anybody's girlfriend.
2006-10-02 15:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, you're trying to decide what to do about something that hasn't happened yet and may never happen. If you worry about it enough, both guys will be gone and you'll have to make up another fantasy worth agonizing over.
Why don't you check out both guys in reality instead of feeling you have to make a choice that's never been offered. How they look from a distance will never tell you what they are like in a relationship. Fantasy is a pathetic substitute for reality. Good luck!
2006-10-02 21:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit down and make a list like this
Girl 1 Girl 2
All the good things All the good things
All the bad things All the bad things
Fill it in and think about what you wrote down and see how it benifits you! Good Luck
2006-10-02 21:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by unknown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should spend some time and think about who has a better personality and is fun to hang out with. When you trust your gut and pick one, you should stop leading the other on (stop flirting with one) and ask out the other but the other one stay friends with and talk to her like shes still your friend.
2006-10-02 21:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by ~Colleen~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that problem once. I dated both of the guys (I told them I wasn't seeing anyone exclusively). Eventually, I realized I liked the one guy more. I told the first guy that I felt we just weren't meant to be together forever. I was sorry to hurt him, but I needed to stop seeing him. He said he appreciated my telling him and married my best friend. It all worked out in the end.
2006-10-02 21:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask each one out on a date and then see which one you like. you have to choose one or you will lose them both. then your the only one thats hurt. but don't string them along to long while you decide.
2006-10-02 22:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by Adam B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flip a coin.
2006-10-02 21:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the good looking one or
the nice and sweet one '-'
2006-10-02 21:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by shadow13579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you watch Greys anatomy..dont do what she did. even if they're both willing to go after you, dont date two guys at once its bound to be bad
2006-10-02 21:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by aznitalian308 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew b/c am in the same situation...am feeling sooo confuse & sad!!!
2006-10-02 21:52:33 · answer #10 · answered by solymar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋