Ok so I posted http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Avl4fM1sY7PLhtnrDibW7O7AFQx.?qid=20061002062110AAurv4g
and now that some sad news has come along, in a matter of SECONDS ive gone from incredably..."in love" to feeling "suicidal" (dont worry im not actually suicidal...) so yeah. im a guy who is incredibly emotional and caring...WHY! i ahte this...the lows in my life ARE FREEKIN LOW and the highs arent too high. am i this desprate for love? seeing someone for only a few days merely as acquaintances and simply feeling like im in love, not even knowing anything about it, dreaming of being together...is that normal!? either way, WHY AM I LIKE THIS!
2006-10-02 14:47:48 · 15 answers · asked by kingfoot7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are just lonely and trying to fill a void in your life.
As human beings are not meant to be alone. some people feel it more than others. The bad part is that when you love like that you can tend to be possessive and that is something that you want to stay away from.
What is normal for you might not be what is normal for others. just accept that you are a compassionate person and let things flow. Also remember that because of the way that you are you can be hurt more easily by rejection than others, but when that happens just be prepared to move on. Someday you will find that special person who will love you as passionately as you love them.
2006-10-02 14:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by cdubsj2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, its completely normal. Life is all about the highs and lows. Just try to remember how good those highs feel. And there's nothing wrong with being desperate for love. Most girls would die to get a guy who actually wants a relationship and real LOVE. Just give it time. When you have hard times like this, lean on some good friends you know you can trust.
2006-10-02 21:53:42 · answer #2 · answered by cfschweppes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are just attracted to this person and u most likely long for a relationship. Accept what you are feeling at the moment. U sound like ur just sad and discontented with how things are in ur life (probably why u used the term "suicidal"). U sound normal to me. Try to be positive. Do something about it and just look at the sunny side of life. I wish you all the best. Take care.
2006-10-02 22:00:59 · answer #3 · answered by Milie88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not longing for someone to love you back, you just want to love someone. I've been there before and I'm still there, just not the suicidal part. You feel really depressed and empty. If you find someone to love you pour your whole heart into it, even if it means taking a risk of being without love if they don't feel the same. You just want to give love. Try waiting for someone just like you to come along.
2006-10-02 21:53:38 · answer #4 · answered by Ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
raging hormones. Its normal. Don't worry as you get older it will get better. Just don't think so much about being lonely...concentrate on the things that you enjoy doing. May "loves" will come and go. Many times you will feel like "she is the one". It is all a part of growing up and maturing.
2006-10-02 21:52:40 · answer #5 · answered by Ruth Less RN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations, you are a caring and emotional individual, you ar ento necessarily normail, but it isn't bad. Yes, it can suck, but you will be fine, you are like this because you are not just disconnecting form the rest of thee world, you accept yourself for who you are, dont' change, this is a great trait as a person.
2006-10-02 21:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by locomonohijo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good to know there are guys out there who are still decent. Don't let your feelings and emotions (and the way you feel about them) ruin a very good quality.
girls are mean.. they will hurt you. but one day you will find someone who will never leave you. and it wont be right away.. but thats life.. an experience, right?
Be happy that you're able to feel love.. some people cant, or wont let themselves.
good luck to you :)
2006-10-02 21:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have nothing else to do just thinking how poor and lonely you are is true - to fell to kill yourself.
If you get married you want to kill your wife.
Get in shape go see the people, don't try to be handicapped.
2006-10-02 21:52:22 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say that is a tiny bit(just a tiny bit) extreme but you are still normal.
Dont sweat it :)
2006-10-02 21:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry so much...You are a romantic at heart, that's why.
2006-10-02 21:50:58 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋