She goes to bed in her room stays up untill we the parents fall asleep around 10 or 11pm and sneaks in. Every single night, Any sugestions!
2006-10-02 14:37:43 · 16 answers · asked by padidvr2003 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Yes it is abnormal.
Here's my suggestion. At 10:01pm after she has climbed into your bed, march her back to hers. If she complains, ask her why she doesn't like her own room. Maybe let her change her room around, paint or get new decorations. Then she might feel better about having her own space.
You need your own space too. This behavior really should stop.
2006-10-02 14:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by shmeeb 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think its more manipulation{sneaky} rather than abnormal.I myself have never allowed any of my kids to come in and out of our bedroom as they please much less sleep with us,but thats because I didnt want to start this routine because I have heard that it becomes a long term .Children at any age will take full advantage of their parents,no matter how old they are.What I would suggest is that you maybe put something up against the door or even a christmas bell on the doorknob so you can hear when she sneaks in your room.Each time she does this I would take her back to her bed and explain to her that shes way too big to be doing this,and that she wouldnt be allowed to continue this.Just remember that its gonna break your heart probably as any parent,but you are the parent,and she needs to know that you make the rules,and if thats a rule,then she has to follow that.Hope this helped.
2006-10-02 14:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by luv2bawifenmom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not abnormal. It just depends on the person. I personally never really slept in my parents room after the age of 5 but my brother, who is 12, still sleeps in their room sometimes. My father was brought up in a different culture in which everyone slept in the same room so it honestly just depends on how you were brought up. But if you don't want her to sleep in you room then lock the door or sit with her until she falls asleep.
2006-10-02 14:48:31 · answer #3 · answered by nitzy: the man u fan! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 11:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is abnormal and you have to break the cycle.
I know it is a lot of effort but you need to take her back to bed every time she climbs in. I know it's easier just to let her climb in but seriously you need to do this NOW. Find out why she does it, maybe make her room different the way SHE wants it or something like that. Make her room her own little sanctuary where she feels safe and secure but you can't let her do that anymore.
2006-10-02 14:40:26 · answer #5 · answered by Candace Rideout 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i slept in my parents room til i was 13 my 2 younger brothers did too my parents just bought a bigger bed and we all would end up going in there at differant times of the night... im 21 now and im sure if i wanted to my mom would make room for me in the bed... i guess its all about the culture you grew up in and how close the parent are with the child... the reason i slept with my parents so long is that i was scared to sleep alone in the dark but i out grew it and now i guess im semi normal
2006-10-02 17:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by iAmJustMe 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
okay not to embarrass myself but i slept with my parents till i was 8
suggest that she sleeps in her room once if she doesnt want to ask her why and if its a problem where the answer is stay with her till she sleeps,then do it
2006-10-02 14:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by dude 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is scared to be in her room. also like others have said, she may just be unhappy with her room. but in most cases its not normal, but that does not mean it is bad eithr. ask her why she does it. if she doesnt know, get a psychiatrist to analyze her or something. they will know what to do. good luck. blessed be.
2006-10-02 14:48:55 · answer #8 · answered by Ravenfire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no! i have a little brother thats nine years old too!and he still sleeps with my mom and dad,he just loves his mom and dad and it just goes to show you you were a good parent up till this piont,in other countrys there kids are teenagers when they finaly move out of there parents room,its ok,she'll go out on her own time be patient,because if you push her out she might feel rejected and loose that closness with you,
2006-10-03 18:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by Josh P 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My first son had a mustache and he was still sleeping with us. My wife was 13 and still sleeping with her parents. So it all depends on culture and the closeness of the family. I think it is a beautiful thing.....KECK
2006-10-02 14:41:27 · answer #10 · answered by Tneciter 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋