My BF's family are going on a holiday to thailand in January and have asked and begged for me to come...so i asked my mum and she said no immediately saying we're only Gf & Bf...Im 21yrs old...last year she said i could go with my friend overseas for a month once i turned 21...so i confronted her with this and she says to me " do you really think i was going to let you go with your friend".....and that hurt me because she lied to me. Why she being like this for...? is it because she is jealous i spending time with my boyfriends family?
2006-10-02 14:33:21 · 5 answers · asked by *LuckyStar* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
At 21, you are old enough to make up your own mind and make your own decisions. However, it is very difficult if you are living in her house and she is paying your bills.
Who would be paying for the trip? Your mum? If so, then you have a problem. However, if you are paying your own way, or your boyfriend's parents are, then sit down with your mother and tell her how much you want to go. I'd even arrange for your boyfriend's parents to speak to her. She might be afraid of what the two of you might get up to.
2006-10-02 14:37:23 · answer #1 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read part 2 before part one.
Just get out of there.
The objective of a parent is to enable their offspring to be as indepent as possible, as soon as possible. If your parents don't understand that, thgen they don't really undersatnd very much. Thousands of people have travelled half way round the world by the time they are 21, and they certainly didn't go with their parents.
Your parents are out of line, and you can't change them, so get out, and start your own life.
Pack a bag, leave and just don't go home
2006-10-02 21:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you make funds, you're 21, you could flow out whenever you want. Your father and mom don't have any carry on you in any respect. Time to diminish the apron strings and flow far flung from mummy. it really is time to boost some balls, so as that you'll chat.
2016-11-25 23:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by fullem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go, i got back from thailand last week, fantastic time, dont miss it.
2006-10-02 14:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there paying...hell go for it
2006-10-02 14:35:34 · answer #5 · answered by butterfly_kisses81501 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋